NEGATIVE AND TOXIC PEOPLE..

DON’T STAY AROUND TOXIC AND NEGATIVE PEOPLE. EVENTUALLY THAT ENERGY WILL RUB OFF ON YOU. I USED TO LET PEOPLE LIKE THAT GET TO ME BUT I REALIZED, THEY’RE ACTUALLY THE ONE HURTING. WHETHER ITS A FRIEND, FAMILY MEMBER, OR YOUR SPOUSE. SURROUND YOURSELF WITH POSITIVITY AND ONLY FOCUS ON THE POSITIVE THINGS. YOU CAN LOVE FROM A DISTANCE. EITHER WAY, CHOOSE LOVE..po009jjj

DON’T RUSH LOVE..

MAKE CAREFUL DECISIONS AND BE PATIENT YOUR LOVER WILL COME WHEN THE TIME IS RIGHT. NOTHING HAPPENS BY COINCIDENCE. SOME PEOPLE ARE QUICK TO GET INTO A RELATIONSHIP. THEY ARE DESPERATE TO BE WITH SOMEONE.  IF YOU RUSH INTO A RELATIONSHIP WITH JUST ANYONE, THE CHANCES OF IT NOT ENDING WELL IS HIGH.  THERE’S NO NEED TO RUSH AND NEVER SETTLE FOR LESS THAN WHAT YOU DESERVE. SOME PEOPLE GET INTO RELATIONSHIPS WITH PEOPLE AND THEY DON’T EVEN TREAT THEM THE WAY THEY SHOULD BE TREATED. KNOW YOU DESERVE NOTHING BUT THE BEST. cheerful-color-cute-207983

PREPARED FOR A RELATIONSHIP..

savvTAKE CARE OF YOURSELF BEFORE ENTERING INTO A RELATIONSHIP. MAKE SURE YOU LOVE AND IS HAPPY WITH YOURSELF. WHATEVER PROBLEMS YOU MAY HAVE WHETHER IT’S CERTAIN INSECURITIES, OR ANY OTHER KIND OF ISSUES. TRY TO DEAL WITH THEM FIRST. IF YOUR HAPPY AND IS AT PEACE WITH YOURSELF. THE BETTER PERSON YOU ARE, AND THE BETTER YOU ARE THE BETTER RELATIONSHIP YOU WILL MAKE. EVERYTHING STARTS WITH YOU. HOW ARE YOU GOING TO MAKE SOMEONE ELSE HAPPY IF YOUR NOT EVEN HAPPY? ALWAYS GET INTO A RELATIONSHIP BECAUSE YOU WANT TO, NOT FOR SOMEONE ELSE. IT’S ALL ABOUT YOU. IF SOMEONE WANTS A RELATIONSHIP WITH YOU BUT YOUR NOT READY, THERE’S NEVER ANYTHING WRONG WITH SAYING “I’M NOT READY”. I COULD NEVER DATE SOMEONE ONLY BECAUSE MY FRIEND WANTS ME TO, IT’S JUST NOT RIGHT. NEVER LET SOMEONE PUSH A RELATIONSHIP ON YOU. NO ONE SHOULD TRY TO LIVE THEIR HAPPINESS THROUGH YOU, AND YOU SHOULD NOT LET THEM.

FEELING AND BEING ALONE..

ALTHOUGH LONELINESS CAN CAUSE DEPRESSION SOMETIMES, IT CAN ALSO BE A GOOD THING. WHEN YOUR ALONE YOU TEND TO LEARN MORE ABOUT YOURSELF, GET A BETTER UNDERSTANDING OF THINGS. YOU CAN’T DEPEND ON OTHERS FOR HAPPINESS, I’S OK TO BE YOUR OWN BEST FRIEND. SOME PEOPLE SPEND HOLIDAYS ALONE AND ARE STILL HAPPY. SOME PEOPLE ARE INVOLVED AND STILL FEEL LONELY. LONELINESS HAS ITS UPS AND DOWNS, GOOD AND BAD. WE ALL NEED TO EXPERIENCE IT FROM TIME TO TIME, TO AN EXTENT. SOME PEOPLE IN RELATIONSHIPS ACTUALLY FEELS LONELIER WITH WHO THEY’RE WITH NOW THAN WHEN THEY WAS SINGLE.  BECAUSE THEY DON’T FEEL CONNECTED OR LOVED. BUT IT REALLY DEPENDS, IF WHETHER YOUR WITH THE RIGHT PERSON OR NOT. SOME PEOPLE THINK ITS WEIRD TO BE OR WANT TO BE ALONE. IT’S NOT ALL AROUND A BAD THING. SOME PEOPLE WANT NOTHING MORE THAN TO BE ALONE. SOME PEOPLE CAN BE ALONE LONGER THAN OTHERS.SO HOW DO YOU FEEL ABOUT BEING ALONE?

DOES A RELATIONSHIP DETERMINE HAPPINESS

DO YOU THINK THE HAPPIEST PEOPLE ARE SINGLE OR IN A RELATIONSHIP? SOME PEOPLE WOULD SAY SINGLE PEOPLE ARE THE HAPPIEST. BECAUSE WHEN YOUR SINGLE YOUR MORE FREE TO DO WHATEVER YOU WANT. WHEN YOUR INVOLVED YOUR NOT. WHEN IT COMES TO RELATIONSHIPS, IF YOUR WITH SOMEONE YOU TRULY LOVE, THEN THAT ALONE OF COURSE BRINGS YOU HAPPINESS. THE THING IS THERE’S MISERABLE  AND HAPPY PEOPLE THAT ARE EITHER SINGLE OR IN A RELATIONSHIP. BUT WHAT’S YOUR OPINION?

THE TRUTH ABOUT MARRIAGE..

Me personally, I’m afraid to get married. When it comes to marriage and finding that person you want to marry, it’s kind of like walking on egg shells. You hear about married people that have cheated on their partner far to often. Some people just want to jump into marriage to soon. Being in a relationship and being in a marriage is two totally different things. If your in a relationship and the other person cheats, you can simply move on. But a marriage under those kind of circumstances is way more complicated. I think you should be with someone at least two years before married. Even though marriage is suppose to be a lifetime commitment, you hear about people getting divorces all the time. If my partner ever cheated, I would just hate to have to go through that. Marriage itself is a beautiful experience. But the after math could be a nightmare, depending on who you choose to marry.