MATERIALISTIC RELATIONSHIPS..

TROPHY RELATIONSHIPS ARE SO COMMON, SOME PEOPLE ARE IN A RELATIONSHIPS WITH SOMEONE THAT IS ONLY WITH THEM BECAUSE OF WHO THEY ARE, OR JUST TO HAVE SOMETHING TO CLAIM. YOU DON’T WANT THAT KIND OF RELATIONSHIP. PEOPLE IN THESE KINDS OF RELATIONSHIPS TEND TO GET TREATED BADLY BECAUSE IT’S NOT BASED ON LOVE. YOUR PRETTY MUCH TAKEN FOR GRANTED. THE PERSON DON’T APPRECIATE YOU THEY ARE JUST THERE TO HAVE HAVE SOMETHING TO CLAIM. THEY PRETTY MUCH SEE YOU AS A MATERIAL. A MAN MIGHT GET WITH A WOMAN SIMPLY BECAUSE SHE IS BEAUTIFUL, BUT HE DON’T REALLY FEEL ANYTHING. SHE STAYS THINKING HE ACTUALLY REALLY LOVES HER OR VISE VERSA. THERE’S REALLY NO TRUE FEELINGS ATTACHED. IF YOUR GOING TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEONE, MAKE SURE THEY FEEL THE SAME WAY ABOUT YOU. IF YOU LOVE THEM MAKE SURE THEY LOVE YOU BACK. IF NOT, THERE’S ALWAYS SOMEONE OUT THERE THAT WILL. YOU HAVE TO BE SMART WHEN IT COMES TO LOVE. KNOW WHEN YOU ARE TRULY LOVED AND NOT.

FIND OUT AFTER THE FIRST DATE..

SOMETIMES, YOU MAY NOT BE SURE HOW A PERSON FEEL ABOUT YOU AFTER A DATE WITH THEM FOR THE FIRST TIME.  PEOPLE CAN SAY ANYTHING. BUT ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER. SO HERE’S THE BEST WAY TO REALLY FIND OUT. STOP TALKING TO THEM FOR AWHILE AND SEE WHAT HAPPENS. IF THEY CONTACT YOU AGAIN FIRST THEN OBVIOUSLY THEY WAS TELLING THE TRUTH. LETS SAY YOU WENT ON A DATE WITH SOMEONE AND YOUR NOT SURE IF THEY REALLY LIKED YOU. BUT YOU REALLY LIKED THEM. DON’T CONTACT THEM AFTERWARDS, WAIT AND SEE IF THEY CONTACT YOU AGAIN. NOW I KNOW THE URGE TO CONTACT THEM MAY BE IRRESISTIBLE, BUT YOU ALSO WANT TO MAKE SURE THEY REALLY LIKE YOU TO. IF YOU CONTACT THEM FIRST YOU REALLY WON’T BE ABLE TO TELL. IT’S REALLY THAT SIMPLE. OR, ANOTHER WAY TO KNOW IS IF THEY ACTUALLY ASK FOR  A SECOND DATE SOME  PEOPLE MIGHT PRETEND TO LIKE YOU BECAUSE THEY DON’T WANT TO HURT YOU. MOST PEOPLE DON’T WANT TO HURT YOUR FEELINGS IN PERSON, SO THEY WILL DO IT WHEN THEY LEAVE. BECAUSE THAT WAY TENDS TO BE EASIER THAN TO TELL YOU THE TRUTH TO YOUR FACE.  BUT I’D RATHER BE HURT THAN TO FIND OUT THIS PERSON WAS LYING ABOUT HOW THEY FELT. IF SOMEONE LIKES YOU THEY ARE GOING TO REACH OUT, IF NOT THEN THAT’S ALSO A MESSAGE.