HAPPY IN LOVE..

.kjoo TO BE HAPPY IN LOVE IS TO ALREADY LIVE IN ACCORDANCE WITH YOU. ONCE YOU HAVE A CLEARER VISION, THE BEST SOLUTION IS TO TALK AND SHARE YOUR FINDINGS WITH YOUR PARTNER. ” I THINK.. I WANT TO.. I NEED TO.. SHARE BUT DO NOT ASK FOR AN ANSWER IN THE MOMENT: AFTER ALL, YOUR CONCLUSIONS ARE BORN OF A REFLECTION. DON’T TAKE THE LACK OF RESPONSE FROM YOUR PARTNER AS AN AGGRESSION OR AS AN ABSENCE OF FEELING: HE/ SHE MAY ALSO NEED TO TAKE STOCK OF HIS DESIRES. UNDERSTAND THE SINGULARITY OF THE OTHER. THE WORST YOU CAN DO IS COMPARE YOUR LOVE RELATIONSHIP WITH THAT OF A FRIEND. HE/SHE HAS HIS OWN WAY OF EXPRESSING THEMSELVES, OWN WAY OF SHOWING LOVE AND OWN PERSONALITY. OWN EMOTIONAL WOUNDS AS WELL. MAKE THE EFFORT TO UNDERSTAND THE SINGULARITY OF THE OTHER IS THE FIRST KEY TO MAINTAINING ONE’S RELATIONSHIP. IT WILL ALLOW HIM/HER TO FEEL FREE, UNDERSTOOD, AND CONFIDENT AND FULFILLED.

STEPS TO A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP..

fgdddFROM THE MEETING TO THE ESTABLISHMENT OF A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP,  THERE ARE SEVERAL STEPS. I’M TALKING ABOUT EMOTIONAL STAGES AND NOT DURATION:BECAUSE IN LOVE, THERE IS NO STANDARD OF DURATION… SOME PEOPLE WILL GET MARRIED AFTER ONE YEAR WHILE OTHERS WILL NEED IT AFTER TEN YEARS OF BEING A COUPLE. YOU JUST HAVE TO FEEL READY. DISCOVERY IS THE BEGINNING OF THE RELATIONSHIP. IN GENERAL, IT’S ALSO A TIME WHEN THE RELATIONSHIP IS EMOTIONALLY UNSTABLE: LOVE AND TRUST ARE BEING BORN, LITTLE BY LITTLE. THIS PERIOD ALSO HELP DEFINE WHAT YOU EXPECT FROM THIS RELATIONSHIP. IS IT A SERIOUS LINK, DESTINED TO LAST IN THE LONG RUN? IT IS RATHER A PASSIONATE RELATIONSHIP, STRONG IN EMOTIONS BUT NOT NECESSARILY BROUGHT TO PROLONG? IT’S SIMPLY ABOUT BEING IN AGREEMENT WITH YOURSELF AND WITH YOUR EXPECTATIONS. AFTER THE DISCOVERY PHASE, THE RELATIONSHIP BEGINS TO MERGE EMOTIONALLY. THE FIRST COURSE, THE TURNING POINT. THE MOMENT WHEN BOTH PARTNERS DETERMINE THE NATURE OF THE BOND THAT UNITES THEM: LONG DURATION, SHORT RELATIONSHIP, FUN? THE DETERMINATION CAN BE EXPRESSED IN DIFFERENT WAYS. SOME COUPLES WILL VERBALIZE IT ( “I LOVE YOU, OR WITH LOVE MESSAGES FOR EXAMPLE), OTHER WILL CONCRETIZE IT WITH IMPLENTATION OR THE REALIZATION OF BIG PROJECTS-BABY, MARRIAGE, PURCHASE OF  A HOUSE… WHILE YOUR PARTNER SEES YOUR RELATIONSHIP AS A NON-SERIOUS, THERE WILL BE A DEFINITE LAG BETWEEN YOUR ASPIRATIONS. ARE YOU READY TO PUSH THE OTHER TO ADOPT YOUR VISION IN A RELATIONSHIP? (THE RISK IS THAT YOUR SPOUSE WILL PLEASE YOU, NOT TO HURT YOU, BUT DOES NOT COMMIT 100% AND GIVE UP AFTERWARDS.) ARE YOU READY TO WAIT FOR THE OTHER TO CHANGE YOUR MIND? (THE RISK IS THAT THIS NEVER HAPPENS AND THAT YOU WAIT IN A UNBALANCED RELATIONSHIP.)ARE YOU READY TO LEAVE THIS RELATIONSHIP TO FIND ANYONE WHO IS IN TUNE WITH YOU? ( THE RISK IS TO LEAVE TOO FAST: ITS POSSIBLE THAT THE OTHER SIMPLY NEEDS TIME TO ENGAGE.) OF COURSE THIS REFLECTION CAN TAKE PLACE IN THE OTHER DIRECTION: YOU CAN BE WITH A PARTNER WHO WANTS TO PUSH FORWARD THE RELATIONSHIP WHEN YOU DO NOT FEEL IT TOO MUCH. WHEN THIS HAPPENS, IT’S TIME TO TAKE STOCK OF YOUR DEEP ASPIRATIONS!

RECOGNIZE A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP..

EVERYONE HAS THEIR VISION OF THE RELATIONSHIP. HOWEVER, THERE ARE SOME FUNDAMENTALS TO DESCRIBE A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP. IF YOU RECOGNIZE YOURSELF THERE IS A GOOD CHANCE THAT THE RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR OTHER HALF WILL BE HEALTHY. TO BE IN A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP IS TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP THAT IS GOOD FOR YOU. THAT MAKES YOU HAPPY. THERE CAN OF COURSE BE ANNOYANCES NUT THESE MUST NOT EXCEED THE JOY, WELL BEING AND HAPPINESS OF BEING TWO. SHARING A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP IS ALSO ABOUT FEELING SAFE. TO TRUST THE OTHER PERSON AND HIS/HER LOVE. WHETHER YOUR COUPLE IS A FUSIONIST OR MORE INDEPENDENT. YOU LIVE TOGETHER AND YOU DEVELOP A RELATIONSHIP FROM A DISTANCE, YOU NEED TO FEEL SAFE. IF YOU FEEL BAD, JEALOUS OR GUILTY REGULARLY, THERE IS A WORRY. IT’S UP TO YOU TO DETERMINE IF IT COMES FROM YOU- COMPLICATED  LOVE, DIFFICULTIES TO TRUST-OR YOUR PARTNER-NOT REASSURING BEHAVIOR… ANYWAY OR WHATEVER THE REASONS, THE BEST IS STILL TO SPEAK ABOUT IT WITH YOUR PARTNER TO CLEAN UP THE RELATIONSHIP. NO QUESTION OF TALKING ABOUT LIBERTINAGE; FEELING FREE IN A RELATIONSHIP MEANS HAVING THE CHOICE TO BE WHO YOU ARE. TO HAVE THE POWER TO STAY YOURSELF. IF YOUR IN A TOXIC RELATIONSHIP YOU MIGHT FEEL COMPELLED TO CHANGE YOUR PERSONALITY TO DESERVE EACH OTHER’S LOVE.

WONDERS AND REGRETS..

HAVE YOU EVER MEET SOMEONE THAT WAS INTO YOU? BUT YOU WASN’T REALLY INTO THEM. BUT YOU DIDN’T TELL THEM, EVENTUALLY THEY PRETTY MUCH GOT THE PICTURE? THE PERSON TOLD YOU HOW HE/SHE FELT AND STOPPED CONTACTING YOU? I WAS TALKING TO A GUY A MONTH OR TWO AGO. HE REALLY LIKED ME BUT I JUST DIDN’T FEEL THE SAME WAY. HE EVENTUALLY KNEW THAT’S WHAT IT WAS. HE SAID HIS PEACE AND STOP CONTACTING ME. BUT NOW, I’M KIND OF REGRETTING NOT GIVING HIM A CHANCE. I’VE BEEN THINKING ABOUT CONTACTING HIM AGAIN. HAVE YOU EVER HAD THE SAME EXPERIENCE WITH SOMEONE? WHAT DID YOU DO? DID YOU LATER REGRET NOT GIVING THAT PERSON  A CHANCE AND CONTACTED THEM AGAIN OR THOUGHT ABOUT IT?

LONGED FOR..

 

HE LONGED TO BE IN HER PRESENCE JUST AS MUCH AS SHE LONGED TO BE IN HIS.

 

HE LONGED TO BE BY HER SIDE JUST AS MUCH AS SHE LONGED TO BE BY HIS.

 

HE LONGED TO BE HOLDING HER AT NIGHT JUST AS MUCH AS SHE LONGED TO HOLD HIM.

 

HE LONGED TO BE CLOSE TO HER AS MUCH AS MUCH AS SHE LONGED TO BE CLOSE TO HIM.

 

THEY LONGED FOR ONE ANOTHER, BUT THEY WAS SO FAR APART. MOST OF THE TIME THEY JUST WONDERED, IF THEY WOULD EVER BE TOGETHER.

PAINFUL EXPERIENCES..

LOVE IS NOT SUPPOSE TO BE PAINFUL AT ALL.  YOU CAN LOVE SOMEONE SO MUCH BUT THEY DON’T LOVE YOU AS MUCH. YOU LOVING  THEM ISN’T PAINFUL, IT’S THE FACT THAT YOU KNOW OR SUSPECT THEY DON’T FEEL THE SAME WAY TOWARDS YOU IS WHAT’S PAINFUL. IT HURTS WHEN YOU LOVE AND WANT SOMEONE SO MUCH, BUT THEY DON’T FEEL THE SAME WAY.  SOME PEOPLE WILL SPLIT WITH SOMEONE THAT LOVE THEM WITHOUT LITTLE TO NO EXPLANATION. PEOPLE THAT HAVE HAD THESE KINDS OF EXPERIENCES WOULD PROBABLY SAY “LOVE IS PAINFUL” BUT IN ALL HONESTY, THAT’S JUST NOT TRUE. LOVE ITSELF IS A POSITIVE THING. BUT CERTAIN EXPERIENCES CAN MAKE IT SEEM OTHER WISE. BUT THEN AGAIN, THIS IS MY OPINION.  BECAUSE THEY DON’T FEEL THE SAME WAY YOU DO TOWARDS THEM. SOME PEOPLE TEND TO NOT WANT TO LOVE ANYONE ELSE AFTER THESE KINDS OF EXPERIENCES. THEY BLAME IT ON LOVE AND SAY LOVE IS PAINFUL.  BUT REALLY IT’S THE EXPERIENCE THAT CAUSED THE HURT. BUT WHAT DO YOU THINK? DOES THIS MAKE SENSE TO YOU?sss

SEX IN A RELATIONSHIP..

SEX IS A MAJOR PART TO KEEPING A GOOD RELATIONSHIP GOING. ALTHOUGH CHEATING IS NOT RIGHT. SOME PEOPLE DRIVE THEIR PARTNER TO CHEAT DO TO LACK OF SEX. SOME PEOPLE ARE IN RELATIONSHIPS AND IS NOT GETTING SEX, OR ENOUGH OF IT. THAT CAN BE DETRIMENTAL. IF YOUR NOT GIVING YOUR PARTNER SEX OFTEN, DON’T BE SURPRISED WHEN AND IF THEY CHEAT. COMMUNICATION AND SEX IS THE TWO MAIN THINGS THAT IS REQUIRED TO HAVE A GREAT HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP. SO IF YOUR NOT GETTING SEX. INSTEAD OF CHEATING, IT’S BEST TO LEAVE. WHY STAY IF YOUR NOT HAPPY?

MATERIALISTIC RELATIONSHIPS..

TROPHY RELATIONSHIPS ARE SO COMMON, SOME PEOPLE ARE IN A RELATIONSHIPS WITH SOMEONE THAT IS ONLY WITH THEM BECAUSE OF WHO THEY ARE, OR JUST TO HAVE SOMETHING TO CLAIM. YOU DON’T WANT THAT KIND OF RELATIONSHIP. PEOPLE IN THESE KINDS OF RELATIONSHIPS TEND TO GET TREATED BADLY BECAUSE IT’S NOT BASED ON LOVE. YOUR PRETTY MUCH TAKEN FOR GRANTED. THE PERSON DON’T APPRECIATE YOU THEY ARE JUST THERE TO HAVE HAVE SOMETHING TO CLAIM. THEY PRETTY MUCH SEE YOU AS A MATERIAL. A MAN MIGHT GET WITH A WOMAN SIMPLY BECAUSE SHE IS BEAUTIFUL, BUT HE DON’T REALLY FEEL ANYTHING. SHE STAYS THINKING HE ACTUALLY REALLY LOVES HER OR VISE VERSA. THERE’S REALLY NO TRUE FEELINGS ATTACHED. IF YOUR GOING TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEONE, MAKE SURE THEY FEEL THE SAME WAY ABOUT YOU. IF YOU LOVE THEM MAKE SURE THEY LOVE YOU BACK. IF NOT, THERE’S ALWAYS SOMEONE OUT THERE THAT WILL. YOU HAVE TO BE SMART WHEN IT COMES TO LOVE. KNOW WHEN YOU ARE TRULY LOVED AND NOT.

OPEN RELATIONSHIPS..

WOULD YOU ENTER A OPEN RELATIONSHIP? I MEAN REALLY, I’M NOT JUDGING ANYONE, BUT THAT’S SOMETHING I WILL NEVER GET. WHY WOULD YOU WANT TO DO THINGS WITH OTHER PEOPLE IF YOUR IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEONE. DOES THAT MAKE SENSE TO YOU? JUST DON’T REALLY GET THE POINT OF A OPEN RELATIONSHIP. NOT TRYING TO BASH PEOPLE THAT ARE IN THEM  BECAUSE IT’S NONE OF MY BUSINESS. POBBVI FEEL A REAL TRUE LOVE RELATIONSHIP REQUIRES DEDICATION. WOULD YOU REALLY WANT TO BE SITTING AROUND KNOWING YOUR PARTNER IS MESSING WITH OTHER WOMEN OR MEN? IF HE OR SHE REALLY LOVES YOU, WHY WOULD THEY WANT TO BE INVOLVED WITH OTHER PEOPLE?

HEALING AFTER A BAD RELATIONSHIP..

WHATEVER YOU LAST RELATIONSHIP WAS LIKE, IF YOU STILL ARE DEALING WITH PERSONAL ISSUES FROM YOUR LAST RELATIONSHIP. DON’T MOVE ON UNTIL YOU ARE REALLY READY. YOU DON’T WANT TO BRING PAST ISSUES INTO A NEW SPACE. ACCEPT THAT IT’S THE PAST AND MOVE ON. IF YOU’VE ENCOUNTERED LOTS OF NEGATIVE EXPERIENCES, IT COULD TAKE TIME TO HEAL, SOME PEOPLE CAN GET OVER IT QUICKER THAN OTHERS,BUT THERE’S NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT. UNDERSTAND THAT EVERYONE IS NOT THE SAME AND YOUR NEXT RELATIONSHIP MAY BE THE BEST YOU’VE EVER HAD.sunset-3936096_960_720

SELF ESTEEM AND RELATIONSHIPS..

DOES YOUR PARTNER SAY POSITIVE OR NEGATIVE THINGS TO YOU OFTEN? MAKING YOUR PARTNER FEEL GOOD ABOUT THEMSELVES AND WHO THEY ARE, EVERYTHING ABOUT THEM, IS A MAJOR PART OF BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP. IF YOUR MAN REALLY LOVES YOU AND CHERISHES YOU, HE’S GOING TO BE MAKING YOU FEEL IT. HE’S GOING TO DO AND SAY THINGS TO SHOW YOU HOW MUCH HE APPRECIATES AND LOVES YOU. SAME GOES FOR WOMEN. IF YOUR PARTNER SAYS NEGATIVE THINGS TO YOU A LOT OF TIMES, THINGS THAT CAN TARNISH YOUR SELF CONFIDENCE AND ESTEEM, YOU MIGHT WANT TO RETHINK THAT RELATIONSHIP. SOME PEOPLE HAVE BEEN THROUGH THIS, THEY THINK HE/ SHE LOVES THEM SIMPLY BECAUSE THAT PERSON IS WITH THEM. BUT JUST BECAUSE SOMEONE IS WITH YOU DON’T MEAN THEY REALLY APPRECIATE AND CHERISHES YOU. TRUE LOVE IS EVERYTHING GOOD. GOOD WORDS, GOOD ACTIONS ETC….. MEN CAN EXPERIENCE THIS FROM THEIR FEMALE PARTNER AS WELL. BUT EITHER WAY. I WOULD JUST LEAVE THAT PERSON.

KNOW THAT IT’S REAL..

SOMEONE CAN TELL YOU ALL DAY THAT THEY LOVE YOU,  IF YOUR PARTNER TELLS YOU HE OR SHE LOVES YOU BUT DON’T REALLY DO ANYTHING TO SHOW IT, THAT MAY NOT BE LOVE. BECAUSE BELIEVE IT OR NOT, SOMEONE PEOPLE ONLY GET WITH SOMEONE ONLY BECAUSE THEY LOOK GOOD. IT HAPPENS A LOT. DON’T ONLY TRUST WHAT YOUR PARTNER SAYS, PAY ATTENTION TO THINGS, DO THEY DO THINGS THAT SHOWS THEY ARE TELLING THE TRUTH WHEN THEY SAY THEY LOVE YOU? DON’T BE NAIVE WHEN IT COMES TO RELATIONSHIPS. MAKE SURE THAT PERSON REALLY TRULY LOVES YOU FOR YOU. MAKE SURE THEY APPRECIATE YOU FOR YOU. IT’S EASY TO BE BLINDED BY FAKE LOVE. KNOW THE DIFFERENCE, THE HAPPIER YOU WILL BE. REAL LOVE IS AN AMAZING EXPERIENCE. MAKE SURE YOU ARE EXPERIENCING IT. TONS OF PEOPLE ARE IN RELATIONSHIPS THEY THINK IT’S REAL LOVE BUT SADLY, IT’S NOT.

FIND OUT AFTER THE FIRST DATE..

SOMETIMES, YOU MAY NOT BE SURE HOW A PERSON FEEL ABOUT YOU AFTER A DATE WITH THEM FOR THE FIRST TIME.  PEOPLE CAN SAY ANYTHING. BUT ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER. SO HERE’S THE BEST WAY TO REALLY FIND OUT. STOP TALKING TO THEM FOR AWHILE AND SEE WHAT HAPPENS. IF THEY CONTACT YOU AGAIN FIRST THEN OBVIOUSLY THEY WAS TELLING THE TRUTH. LETS SAY YOU WENT ON A DATE WITH SOMEONE AND YOUR NOT SURE IF THEY REALLY LIKED YOU. BUT YOU REALLY LIKED THEM. DON’T CONTACT THEM AFTERWARDS, WAIT AND SEE IF THEY CONTACT YOU AGAIN. NOW I KNOW THE URGE TO CONTACT THEM MAY BE IRRESISTIBLE, BUT YOU ALSO WANT TO MAKE SURE THEY REALLY LIKE YOU TO. IF YOU CONTACT THEM FIRST YOU REALLY WON’T BE ABLE TO TELL. IT’S REALLY THAT SIMPLE. OR, ANOTHER WAY TO KNOW IS IF THEY ACTUALLY ASK FOR  A SECOND DATE SOME  PEOPLE MIGHT PRETEND TO LIKE YOU BECAUSE THEY DON’T WANT TO HURT YOU. MOST PEOPLE DON’T WANT TO HURT YOUR FEELINGS IN PERSON, SO THEY WILL DO IT WHEN THEY LEAVE. BECAUSE THAT WAY TENDS TO BE EASIER THAN TO TELL YOU THE TRUTH TO YOUR FACE.  BUT I’D RATHER BE HURT THAN TO FIND OUT THIS PERSON WAS LYING ABOUT HOW THEY FELT. IF SOMEONE LIKES YOU THEY ARE GOING TO REACH OUT, IF NOT THEN THAT’S ALSO A MESSAGE.

JUST BE YOU..

DON’T TRY TO BE PERFECT FOR ANYONE, NOT EVEN YOUR PARTNER. WE ALL HAVE FLAWS, WE ALL MAKE MISTAKES. SOME PEOPLE CHANGE HOW THEY DO CERTAIN THINGS WHEN THEY GET WITH SOMEONE. EITHER THAT PERSON ACCEPTS EVERYTHING ABOUT YOU OR DON’T ACCEPT YOU AT ALL. IF SOMEONE TRULY LOVE YOU THEY WILL ACCEPT EVERYTHING ABOUT YOU. THEY WOULD NOT ASK OR EXPECT YOU TO CHANGE ANYTHING. IF IT’S CHANGING SOMETHING NEGATIVE THEN YEA IT WOULD BE A GOOD IDEA TO. BUT AS FAR AS POSITIVE THINGS, JUST BE YOU. CHANGE SOMETHING ONLY IF YOU WANT TO CHANGE IT. THAT’S JUST MY OPINION. DO WHAT YOU ARE COMFORTABLE DOING AND MAKES YOU HAPPY.smiley-2979107_960_720

LOVE AND LUST AT FIRST SIGHT…

DO YOU BELIEVE IN LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT? LUST AT FIRST SIGHT? HONESTLY, I BELIEVE IN BOTH. I BELIEVE YOU CAN FALL IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE AT THE FIRST SIGHT OF THEM. I HAVE PERSONALLY EXPERIENCED IT. THAT FEELING WHERE YOU JUST WANT TO BE WITH SOMEONE, DO WHAT YOU CAN TO MAKE THEM HAPPY. SHARE THINGS TOGETHER. MOST PEOPLE WOULD SAY IT’S LUST AT FIRST SIGHT. SOME PEOPLE JUST DON’T BELIEVE IN LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT. I THINK BOTH ARE VERY MUCH REAL AND YOU CAN EXPERIENCE BOTH. HAVE YOU EVER MET SOMEONE YOU JUST WANTED TO BE AROUND ALL THE TIME. EVEN THE THOUGHT OF BEING AROUND THEM EXCITED YOU. EVEN IF  YOU DON’T REALLY KNOW THEM WELL. THEM EVEN LOOKING AT YOU OR YOU LOOKING AT THEM JUST INVOKED  THOSE FEELINGS.YOU WANT TO MAKE AND SEE THEM HAPPY. YOU CANT STOP THINKING ABOUT THEM. YOU MAY HAVE JUST EXPERIENCED LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT. IF IT’S LUST AT FIRST SIGHT YOU WILL KNOW THAT TOO. YOU ONLY WANT INTIMATE RELATIONS WITH THEM AND THAT’S REALLY ABOUT IT. EVERYONE HAVE OR WILL EXPERIENCE BOTH AT SOME POINT. pexels-photo-1872762

DON’T RUSH LOVE..

MAKE CAREFUL DECISIONS AND BE PATIENT YOUR LOVER WILL COME WHEN THE TIME IS RIGHT. NOTHING HAPPENS BY COINCIDENCE. SOME PEOPLE ARE QUICK TO GET INTO A RELATIONSHIP. THEY ARE DESPERATE TO BE WITH SOMEONE.  IF YOU RUSH INTO A RELATIONSHIP WITH JUST ANYONE, THE CHANCES OF IT NOT ENDING WELL IS HIGH.  THERE’S NO NEED TO RUSH AND NEVER SETTLE FOR LESS THAN WHAT YOU DESERVE. SOME PEOPLE GET INTO RELATIONSHIPS WITH PEOPLE AND THEY DON’T EVEN TREAT THEM THE WAY THEY SHOULD BE TREATED. KNOW YOU DESERVE NOTHING BUT THE BEST. cheerful-color-cute-207983

PREPARED FOR A RELATIONSHIP..

savvTAKE CARE OF YOURSELF BEFORE ENTERING INTO A RELATIONSHIP. MAKE SURE YOU LOVE AND IS HAPPY WITH YOURSELF. WHATEVER PROBLEMS YOU MAY HAVE WHETHER IT’S CERTAIN INSECURITIES, OR ANY OTHER KIND OF ISSUES. TRY TO DEAL WITH THEM FIRST. IF YOUR HAPPY AND IS AT PEACE WITH YOURSELF. THE BETTER PERSON YOU ARE, AND THE BETTER YOU ARE THE BETTER RELATIONSHIP YOU WILL MAKE. EVERYTHING STARTS WITH YOU. HOW ARE YOU GOING TO MAKE SOMEONE ELSE HAPPY IF YOUR NOT EVEN HAPPY? ALWAYS GET INTO A RELATIONSHIP BECAUSE YOU WANT TO, NOT FOR SOMEONE ELSE. IT’S ALL ABOUT YOU. IF SOMEONE WANTS A RELATIONSHIP WITH YOU BUT YOUR NOT READY, THERE’S NEVER ANYTHING WRONG WITH SAYING “I’M NOT READY”. I COULD NEVER DATE SOMEONE ONLY BECAUSE MY FRIEND WANTS ME TO, IT’S JUST NOT RIGHT. NEVER LET SOMEONE PUSH A RELATIONSHIP ON YOU. NO ONE SHOULD TRY TO LIVE THEIR HAPPINESS THROUGH YOU, AND YOU SHOULD NOT LET THEM.