IT IS SAID THAT THE STRONGER YOU DESIRE SOMETHING, THE QUICKER YOU GET IT.
DID YOU HOLD ON AND HAVE FAITH, OR SIMPLY FORGET IT?
DID YOU FIGHT THE FEELING OF WANTING IT, OR DID YOU SIMPLY LET IT?
IT’S FUNNY HOW THINGS WORK, HOW SOMETHING CAN HAPPEN WHEN YOU LEAST EXPECT IT.
THE FUN THING ABOUT GOING ON A BLIND DATE IS:
THE SCARY PART IS:
SO IS IT THAT SOME PEOPLE THINK JUST BECAUSE THEY ARE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEONE OR EVEN A MARRIAGE, THAT THAT PERSON HAVE THE RIGHT TO PUT THEIR HANDS ON THEM ANY KIND OF WAY? I OFTEN WONDER ABOUT THIS. DO YOU THINK THIS MAY BE WHY THEY DON’T DEFEND THEMSELVES? WELL NEWS FLASH, NO ONE AND I MEAN NO ONE HAVE THAT RIGHT TO DO HARM TO YOU. IT IS NEVER OK AND YOU DON’T HAVE TO PUT UP WITH IT. YOU NEVER HAVE TO BE SOMEONE’S PUNCHING BAG. YOU ALWAYS DESERVE BETTER WHETHER YOU BELIEVE YOU DO OR NOT. I DECIDED TO WRITE THIS BECAUSE MAYBE IT COULD GET THROUGH TO SOMEONE THAT NEEDS TO SEE IT.
A RELATIONSHIP OF LOVE, RESPECT, AND UNDERSTANDING, A LOVE STORY THAT HAS NO INCEPTION BUT AN ENDING OF SHATTERED DREAMS. IT WAS CERTAINLY NOT A MAINSTREAM RELATIONSHIP WITH RELATIONSHIP PROBLEMS, CONFLICTS OR ARGUMENTS, THERE WAS HARMONY AND APPRECIATION IN EVERY STEP OF TOGETHERNESS. THE WORLD BELIEVED SOMETHING MORE THAN JUST A COMPANY OR FRIENDSHIP BUT IT WAS NOT IN SHADOWS OF THE DOUBTS FOR THE COUPLE. THE BOY WAS RECKLESS AT TIMES BUT HAS A GOOD HEART AND IS GENTLE BY NATURE WHEREAS, THE GIRL WAS GOING THROUGH A BREAK-UP AS HER RELATIONSHIP IS NOT GOING WELL AND COUNTERING BUMPS IN THE ROAD.TWO ABSOLUTE STRANGERS FOR A STARTER, FOR LOVE TO SPARK, THERE HAS TO BE SOMETHING COMMON, IN THERE CASE THEY HAVE MUTUAL FRIEND, HE IS THE CHILDHOOD FRIEND OF THE BOY AND STUDIES IN THE SAME CLASS WITH THE GIRL. CALLING HIM A CUPID WON’T BE AN UNDERSTATEMENT, HOWEVER, HE ARRANGES A MEETING AT A SOCIAL EVENT BUT THE GIRL DOES NOT SHOW UP BECAUSE SHE WAS ASKED OUT FOR THE LAST TIME BY HER SOON-TO-BE-EX-BOYFRIEND.THE BOY AND HIS FRIEND ENJOY THEIR TIME AND LEAVE. THE OTHER DAY, THE BOY RECEIVES A MESSAGE, HEY! HE KNEW THAT IT WAS THE GIRL’S NUMBER IMMEDIATELY, THERE WAS A CONNECTION I GUESS,THEN THEY TEXTED BACK AND FORTH TILL THE NIGHT GOT DARKER AND STARS GOT BRIGHTER. AS TIME PASSED BY THEY BOTH FEEL COMFORTABLE AND ENJOYED EACH OTHER’S HUMOR, SHARE THEIR OPINIONS, DID DISCUSSIONS, AND MADE UNSUCCESSFUL PLANS OF MEETING. THEIR FRIENDS’ CIRCLE ALREADY KNOWS THERE IS SOMETHING FISHY BETWEEN THEM BUT THE BOY AND GIRL NEVER ADMIT NOR HAD ANY INTENTIONS.UNPRECEDENTEDLY, THEY MEET AFTER A MONTH OF TEXTING AT A RESTAURANT. IT IS ONE OF THE BEST DAYS BOTH HAD, THEY TALKED, LAUGHED, AND HAD FUN UNTIL THERE WAYS APART. THEY START TO MEET REGULARLY AND MAYBE STARTED TO FEEL FOR EACH OTHER.THEY TAKE LONG WALKS WITHOUT HOLDING HANDS( VERY UNROMANTIC THOUGH) CALL EACH OTHER FOR HOURS, SHARE SIMILAR THOUGHTS ON MANY THINGS ANS POSSESS DIFFERENT OPINIONS AS WELL. THE UNLIKELINESS IS SO ON-POINT THAT THEY NEVER FACE RELATIONSHIP PROBLEMS.REMEMBER THAT’S MUTUAL FRIEND? HE CONFRONTS THE BOY AND ASKS ABOUT THE RELATIONSHIP AND IN REPLY THE BOY SAYS, I DO NOT MAN, SHE IS PRETTY AND I DON’T KNOW SHE THINKS THE SAME OR SHE EVEN LIKES ME. THE FRIEND ASKS THE SAME THING FROM THE GIRL AND SHE REPLIES, HE HAS NOT APPROACHED ME YET AND I DON’T THINK IF HE LIKES ME IN THAT WAY, ALTHOUGH HE IS CUTE AND ALL BUT I DON’T KNOW UNCERTAINTY IN A RELATIONSHIP IS THE FIRST STEP BUT IT WAS THE LAST IN THIS ONE. ONE DAY SHE GETS A MARRIAGE PROPOSAL AND HER PARENTS ACCEPTED IT AND SURPRISINGLY SHE INDULGES HERSELF IN THAT RELATIONSHIP. THE BOY GOT THE NEWS FROM HIS FRIEND, HE GOT CONFUSED, A BIT HEARTBROKEN AND FELT DISAPPROVED BUT WISHED HER LUCK AND PRAYED FOR THE BEST AND NEVER CONTACTED HER AGAIN
RELATIONSHIP MEMES HAVE BEEN VERY POPULAR LATELY. HERE’S ONE I MADE. 97% OF WOMEN GETTING MARRIED WILL PROBABLY EXPERIENCE THIS MOMENT.
I WANT THE KIND OR RELATIONSHIP THAT MAKES ME FEEL LIKE I’M LIVING IN A DREAM/FANTASY WORLD. TO EXPERIENCE ROMANTICISM OVER AND OVER AGAIN. A BEAUTIFUL RELATIONSHIP IS MAKING YOUR PARTNER FEEL LIKE EVERYDAY IS VALENTINES DAY. EVERYDAY IS HIS/HER DAY. I’M SURE EVERYONE WANTS THIS KIND OF RELATIONSHIP. ROMANTICISM IS EVERYTHING IN A RELATIONSHIP. I MAKES THE RELATIONSHIP STRONGER AND LAST LONGER, OTHER THAN COMMUNICATION AND SEX.
IF YOUR SINGLE AND DON’T HAVE A DATE ON VALENTINES, JUST SIMPLY LIGHT UP SOME CANDLES, DIM THE LIGHTS, PUT ON A BEAUTIFUL PIECE OF MUSIC AND SIMPLY ENJOY A NICE CANDLE LIGHT DINNER BY YOURSELF. THERE’S NOTHING WRONG WITH TREATING YOURSELF.
WOULD YOU DATE SOMEONE WHO TOLD YOU THEIR WEAKNESS IS BEAUTIFUL PEOPLE? LETS SAY YOU MET A WOMAN, SHE TELLS YOU HER WEAKNESS IS VERY HANDSOME MEN? OR YOUR A WOMAN AND YOU MET A GUY AND HE TELLS YOU HIS WEAKNESS IS BEAUTIFUL WOMEN? LETS SAY YOUR IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEONE LIKE THIS, WHETHER ITS A GUY OR A WOMAN. YOU PRETTY MUCH HAVE TO WONDER, CAN HE/SHE BE TRUSTED AROUND OTHER BEAUTIFUL PEOPLE? THIS IS THE MAIN REASON WHY YOU SHOULD NOT ONLY DATE SOMEONE BASED ON HOW THEY LOOK. AND WHAT A RELATIONSHIP WITHOUT SOLID TRUST? NOW YOU MAY BE IN LOVE WITH THIS PERSON, BUT THE QUESTION STILL REMAINS, CAN THEY BE TRUSTED AROUND OTHER HIGHLY ATTRACTIVE PEOPLE? JUST SOMETHING TO THINK ABOUT.
