PREPARED FOR A RELATIONSHIP..

savvTAKE CARE OF YOURSELF BEFORE ENTERING INTO A RELATIONSHIP. MAKE SURE YOU LOVE AND IS HAPPY WITH YOURSELF. WHATEVER PROBLEMS YOU MAY HAVE WHETHER IT’S CERTAIN INSECURITIES, OR ANY OTHER KIND OF ISSUES. TRY TO DEAL WITH THEM FIRST. IF YOUR HAPPY AND IS AT PEACE WITH YOURSELF. THE BETTER PERSON YOU ARE, AND THE BETTER YOU ARE THE BETTER RELATIONSHIP YOU WILL MAKE. EVERYTHING STARTS WITH YOU. HOW ARE YOU GOING TO MAKE SOMEONE ELSE HAPPY IF YOUR NOT EVEN HAPPY? ALWAYS GET INTO A RELATIONSHIP BECAUSE YOU WANT TO, NOT FOR SOMEONE ELSE. IT’S ALL ABOUT YOU. IF SOMEONE WANTS A RELATIONSHIP WITH YOU BUT YOUR NOT READY, THERE’S NEVER ANYTHING WRONG WITH SAYING “I’M NOT READY”. I COULD NEVER DATE SOMEONE ONLY BECAUSE MY FRIEND WANTS ME TO, IT’S JUST NOT RIGHT. NEVER LET SOMEONE PUSH A RELATIONSHIP ON YOU. NO ONE SHOULD TRY TO LIVE THEIR HAPPINESS THROUGH YOU, AND YOU SHOULD NOT LET THEM.

FEELING AND BEING ALONE..

ALTHOUGH LONELINESS CAN CAUSE DEPRESSION SOMETIMES, IT CAN ALSO BE A GOOD THING. WHEN YOUR ALONE YOU TEND TO LEARN MORE ABOUT YOURSELF, GET A BETTER UNDERSTANDING OF THINGS. YOU CAN’T DEPEND ON OTHERS FOR HAPPINESS, I’S OK TO BE YOUR OWN BEST FRIEND. SOME PEOPLE SPEND HOLIDAYS ALONE AND ARE STILL HAPPY. SOME PEOPLE ARE INVOLVED AND STILL FEEL LONELY. LONELINESS HAS ITS UPS AND DOWNS, GOOD AND BAD. WE ALL NEED TO EXPERIENCE IT FROM TIME TO TIME, TO AN EXTENT. SOME PEOPLE IN RELATIONSHIPS ACTUALLY FEELS LONELIER WITH WHO THEY’RE WITH NOW THAN WHEN THEY WAS SINGLE.  BECAUSE THEY DON’T FEEL CONNECTED OR LOVED. BUT IT REALLY DEPENDS, IF WHETHER YOUR WITH THE RIGHT PERSON OR NOT. SOME PEOPLE THINK ITS WEIRD TO BE OR WANT TO BE ALONE. IT’S NOT ALL AROUND A BAD THING. SOME PEOPLE WANT NOTHING MORE THAN TO BE ALONE. SOME PEOPLE CAN BE ALONE LONGER THAN OTHERS.SO HOW DO YOU FEEL ABOUT BEING ALONE?

DOES A RELATIONSHIP DETERMINE HAPPINESS

DO YOU THINK THE HAPPIEST PEOPLE ARE SINGLE OR IN A RELATIONSHIP? SOME PEOPLE WOULD SAY SINGLE PEOPLE ARE THE HAPPIEST. BECAUSE WHEN YOUR SINGLE YOUR MORE FREE TO DO WHATEVER YOU WANT. WHEN YOUR INVOLVED YOUR NOT. WHEN IT COMES TO RELATIONSHIPS, IF YOUR WITH SOMEONE YOU TRULY LOVE, THEN THAT ALONE OF COURSE BRINGS YOU HAPPINESS. THE THING IS THERE’S MISERABLE  AND HAPPY PEOPLE THAT ARE EITHER SINGLE OR IN A RELATIONSHIP. BUT WHAT’S YOUR OPINION?

IS A RELATIONSHIP EVERYTHING..

I’VE ALWAYS THOUGHT BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP MEANT YOU JUST FEEL LIKE YOUR ON TOP OF THE WORLD. BUT NOW THAT I’M OLDER, I COME TO REALIZE, BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP IN MY OPINION, IS NOT EVERYTHING. I  MEAN YOU HAVE PEOPLE THAT ARE INVOLVED THAT ARE NOT EVEN HAPPY. I HEARD SOME PEOPLE SAY THEY ARE HAPPIER BEING SINGLE. THE GOOD THING ABOUT BEING SINGLE, YOU ONLY GET TO FOCUS ON YOU. BUT THERE WILL BE TIMES YOU’LL WANT SOMEONE WITH YOU. EVERY HUMAN BEING NEEDS SOME KIND OF INTERACTION WITH OTHER PEOPLE FROM TIME TO TIME. YOU MAY GET TIRED OF SLEEPING ALONE. YOU MAY WANT SOMEONE TO HOLD AT TIMES.SOME PEOPLE WOULD SAY THE HAPPIEST PEOPLE ARE THE ONES IN RELATIONSHIPS, BUT I DON’T AGREE WITH THAT AT ALL. SOME OF THE HAPPIEST PEOPLE ARE SINGLE, AND SOME OF THE MOST MISERABLE,  ANGRIEST PEOPLE ARE ACTUALLY IN A RELATIONSHIPS. SO WHAT DO YOU THINK? DO YOU THINK SINGLE IS GOOD? DO YOU THINK YOU CAN LEARN MORE ABOUT YOURSELF BEING SINGLE? OR INVOLVED?

A GOOD PLACE..

SO ME AND THE GUY I’VE BEEN SEEING ARE NOW AT A REALLY GOOD PLACE, I’M SO HAPPY WE ARE NOW BACK AT A GOOD PLACE AND HOPEFULLY IT STAYS THAT WAY. WE’VE HAD AN EXPERIENCE THAT HAVE BROUGHT US A LITTLE CLOSER TOGETHER.. I’M KIND OF STARTING TO FEEL LIKE WE MAY BE SOUL MATES, I KNOW THAT’S A BIG THING TO SAY BUT I’M KIND OF STARTING TO FEEL THAT WAY. ITS FUNNY HOW THINGS WORK SOMETIMES AND I KNOW THAT THE UNIVERSE KNOWS THE RIGHT TIMING OF EVERYTHING, ITS NOW SO OBVIOUS TO ME.

LONG DISTANT RELATIONSHIPS..

HAVE YOU EVERY BEEN IN A LONG DISTANT RELATIONSHIP? IF NOT, COULD YOU? WELL, I HAVE.. AND IT’S REALLY NOT A GOOD FEELING, I MEAN IT’S NOTHING LIKE BEING RIGHT NEXT TO THE ONE YOU LOVE THE MOST. SOME PEOPLE CAN MAKE IT WORK, SOME CANT. I THINK ANYONE CAN DO IT FOR A SHORT AMOUNT OF TIME, BUT A LONG TIME CAN BE HARD. I PERSONALLY HAVE BEEN IN A DISTANT RELATIONSHIP.. NOT NECESSARILY LONG DISTANT, BUT A DISTANT. LONG DISTANT RELATIONSHIPS MAINLY DEPENDS ON HOW TWO INDIVIDUALS FEEL ABOUT ONE ANOTHER AS WELL AS THE LEVEL OF TRUST. BUT I HAVE TO ADMIT, TRUST CAN BE A HARD THING. YOU LITERALLY HAVE TO WONDER EVERY MINUTE OF EVERY SECOND WHAT HE/OR HER IS DOING WHEN NOT FACE TIMING OR TALKING ON THE PHONE. THAT CAN EVEN LEAD TO STRESS. NOW, IM NOT SAYING THAT’S HOW IT IS FOR EVERYONE, JUST DEPENDS ON THE SITUATION AND THE PERSON REALLY. SO AT THE END OF THE DAY, I THINK EVERYONE WOULD PREFER TO BE TOGETHER.

 

THE UPSIDE OF LOVE

 

LOVE CAN HAVE YOU FEELING LIKE YOUR ON TOP OF THE WORLD, THAT’S HOW POWERFUL IT IS. IT CAN BRING LOTS OF JOY, FUN, HAPPINESS AND EXCITEMENT TO YOU AND EVEN THOSE AROUND YOU THAT CARE ABOUT YOU. EVERYONE SHOULD BE ABLE TO EXPERIENCE WHAT ITS LIKE TO BE LOVED. AFTER ALL, THERE’S SOMEBODY FOR EVERYBODY. AFTER ALL, LOVE IS A BEAUTIFUL THING. HAVING SOMEONE TO SHARE THINGS WITH, THINGS YOU LIKE TO DO, PLACES TO ENJOY GOING. EVEN THOUGH IT HAS IT’S DOWNSIDE AS WELL, FOR THE MOST PART IT’S A BEAUTIFUL EXPERIENCE.