STRIP CLUBS WITH YOUR PARTNER?

WOULD YOU GO TO  STRIP CLUBS WITH YOUR PARTNER? ARE YOU OK WITH THEM GETTING PRIVATE DANCES? THIS IS SOMETHING I USED TO WONDER ABOUT. I KNOW  SOME COUPLES TO GO TO STRIP CLUBS TOGETHER BUT THAT’S JUST SOMETHING I JUST DON’T GET. I’M PRETTY SURE PEOPLE IN OPEN RELATIONSHIPS  GO TO PLACES LIKE THAT TOGETHER. NOW IF YOU HAVE A OPEN RELATIONSHIP, THEN THAT’S MORE UNDERSTANDABLE. BUT DO YOU THINK MONOGAMOUS COUPLES GO TO STRIP CLUBS ALSO? WOULD YOU GO WITH YOUR PARTNER? MOST PEOPLE WOULDN’T WANT THEIR PARTNER CHECKING  OUT ANOTHER PERSON OF THE OPPOSITE SEX. BUT THEN AGAIN, SOME PEOPLE ARE MORE INSECURE THAN OTHERS. OF COURSE THERE’S  NOTHING WRONG WITH DOING FUN THINGS TOGETHER. BUT DO YOU THINK THAT’S A BIT MUCH? IS THIS SOMETHING ONLY PEOPLE WITH OPEN RELATIONSHIPS DO?pexels-photo-270775

SEX IN A RELATIONSHIP..

SEX IS A MAJOR PART TO KEEPING A GOOD RELATIONSHIP GOING. ALTHOUGH CHEATING IS NOT RIGHT. SOME PEOPLE DRIVE THEIR PARTNER TO CHEAT DO TO LACK OF SEX. SOME PEOPLE ARE IN RELATIONSHIPS AND IS NOT GETTING SEX, OR ENOUGH OF IT. THAT CAN BE DETRIMENTAL. IF YOUR NOT GIVING YOUR PARTNER SEX OFTEN, DON’T BE SURPRISED WHEN AND IF THEY CHEAT. COMMUNICATION AND SEX IS THE TWO MAIN THINGS THAT IS REQUIRED TO HAVE A GREAT HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP. SO IF YOUR NOT GETTING SEX. INSTEAD OF CHEATING, IT’S BEST TO LEAVE. WHY STAY IF YOUR NOT HAPPY?

OPEN RELATIONSHIPS..

WOULD YOU ENTER A OPEN RELATIONSHIP? I MEAN REALLY, I’M NOT JUDGING ANYONE, BUT THAT’S SOMETHING I WILL NEVER GET. WHY WOULD YOU WANT TO DO THINGS WITH OTHER PEOPLE IF YOUR IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEONE. DOES THAT MAKE SENSE TO YOU? JUST DON’T REALLY GET THE POINT OF A OPEN RELATIONSHIP. NOT TRYING TO BASH PEOPLE THAT ARE IN THEM  BECAUSE IT’S NONE OF MY BUSINESS. POBBVI FEEL A REAL TRUE LOVE RELATIONSHIP REQUIRES DEDICATION. WOULD YOU REALLY WANT TO BE SITTING AROUND KNOWING YOUR PARTNER IS MESSING WITH OTHER WOMEN OR MEN? IF HE OR SHE REALLY LOVES YOU, WHY WOULD THEY WANT TO BE INVOLVED WITH OTHER PEOPLE?

SELF ESTEEM AND RELATIONSHIPS..

DOES YOUR PARTNER SAY POSITIVE OR NEGATIVE THINGS TO YOU OFTEN? MAKING YOUR PARTNER FEEL GOOD ABOUT THEMSELVES AND WHO THEY ARE, EVERYTHING ABOUT THEM, IS A MAJOR PART OF BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP. IF YOUR MAN REALLY LOVES YOU AND CHERISHES YOU, HE’S GOING TO BE MAKING YOU FEEL IT. HE’S GOING TO DO AND SAY THINGS TO SHOW YOU HOW MUCH HE APPRECIATES AND LOVES YOU. SAME GOES FOR WOMEN. IF YOUR PARTNER SAYS NEGATIVE THINGS TO YOU A LOT OF TIMES, THINGS THAT CAN TARNISH YOUR SELF CONFIDENCE AND ESTEEM, YOU MIGHT WANT TO RETHINK THAT RELATIONSHIP. SOME PEOPLE HAVE BEEN THROUGH THIS, THEY THINK HE/ SHE LOVES THEM SIMPLY BECAUSE THAT PERSON IS WITH THEM. BUT JUST BECAUSE SOMEONE IS WITH YOU DON’T MEAN THEY REALLY APPRECIATE AND CHERISHES YOU. TRUE LOVE IS EVERYTHING GOOD. GOOD WORDS, GOOD ACTIONS ETC….. MEN CAN EXPERIENCE THIS FROM THEIR FEMALE PARTNER AS WELL. BUT EITHER WAY. I WOULD JUST LEAVE THAT PERSON.

IS A RELATIONSHIP EVERYTHING..

I’VE ALWAYS THOUGHT BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP MEANT YOU JUST FEEL LIKE YOUR ON TOP OF THE WORLD. BUT NOW THAT I’M OLDER, I COME TO REALIZE, BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP IN MY OPINION, IS NOT EVERYTHING. I  MEAN YOU HAVE PEOPLE THAT ARE INVOLVED THAT ARE NOT EVEN HAPPY. I HEARD SOME PEOPLE SAY THEY ARE HAPPIER BEING SINGLE. THE GOOD THING ABOUT BEING SINGLE, YOU ONLY GET TO FOCUS ON YOU. BUT THERE WILL BE TIMES YOU’LL WANT SOMEONE WITH YOU. EVERY HUMAN BEING NEEDS SOME KIND OF INTERACTION WITH OTHER PEOPLE FROM TIME TO TIME. YOU MAY GET TIRED OF SLEEPING ALONE. YOU MAY WANT SOMEONE TO HOLD AT TIMES.SOME PEOPLE WOULD SAY THE HAPPIEST PEOPLE ARE THE ONES IN RELATIONSHIPS, BUT I DON’T AGREE WITH THAT AT ALL. SOME OF THE HAPPIEST PEOPLE ARE SINGLE, AND SOME OF THE MOST MISERABLE,  ANGRIEST PEOPLE ARE ACTUALLY IN A RELATIONSHIPS. SO WHAT DO YOU THINK? DO YOU THINK SINGLE IS GOOD? DO YOU THINK YOU CAN LEARN MORE ABOUT YOURSELF BEING SINGLE? OR INVOLVED?

A JEALOUS PARTNER…

COULD YOU BE INVOLVED WITH SOMEONE THAT’S JEALOUS? EVEN IF YOU REALLY LIKE THAT PERSON? JEALOUSY IS A TOXIC EMOTION, I MEAN, THERE ISN’T ANYTHING WRONG WITH BEING PROTECTIVE OF WHATS YOURS, BUT SOME PEOPLE CAN TAKE IT TO FAR… I DON’T WANT YOU TALKING TO THIS PERSON, I DON’T WANT YOU TO BE FRIENDS WITH THIS PERSON AND SO ON AND SO ON….. SOME PEOPLE ARE STUNNING PHYSICALLY, BUT THE INSIDE IS COMPLETELY THE OPPOSITE, THEY CAN BE COLD, VIOLENT AND MEAN ON THE INSIDE. THE KIND OF PERSON THEY ARE IS WHAT REALLY MATTERS BUT MOST PEOPLE ARE MORE INTO PHYSICAL APPEARANCE. SO IF YOU HAVE SOMEONE THAT’S BEAUTIFUL BOTH INSIDE AND OUT.. FEEL SPECIAL, BECAUSE YOUR LUCKY.