A PROPOSAL LOVE STORY..

AS USUAL AVRIL’S DAY STARTED WITH AN ALARM AT 6 IN THE MORNING. SHE FELT LIKE NOT LEAVING THE BED; HOWEVER, IT IS NOT HER USUAL ROUTINE. SHE IS IN FACT, VERY ACTIVE, SHE DOES YOGA AND RUNS IN THE MORNING. BUT IT IS NOT THE SAME TODAY, SHE FEELS LOW AND HELPLESS IN HER OWN WORLD. AVRIL, A TEAM LEAD IN A SOFTWARE COMPANY  HAS ALWAYS BEEN A DEDICATED PERSON TOWARDS HER WORK AND LIFE. ALWAYS A PROBLEM SOLVER IS NOW STRUGGLING TO GET ANSWERS FOR HER OWN LIFE. SHE FEELS LOW, DEPRESSED, AND HELPLESS SINCE LAST WEEK, AFTER SAMUEL PROPOSED AVRIL FOR MARRIAGE, SHE IS FEELING LIKE THIS. AS SHE NEVER EXPECTED SOMETHING LIKE THAT IS GOING TO HAPPEN IN HER LIFE. AVRIL AND SAMUEL HAVE BEEN GREAT FRIENDS SINCE DAY ONE WHEN THEY MET IN THE OFFICE DURING INDUCTION IN THE YEAR 2016. AS BOTH OF THEM WERE NEW AND FRESHER, THEY COULD CONNECT WELL. GRADUALLY THEY BECAME GOOD FRIENDS. HOWEVER, JUST A YEAR BACK SAMUEL CHANGED HIS COMPANY AND JOINED SOME OTHERS, STILL THEY WERE GOOD FRIENDS AND USED TO CATCH UP ON WEEKENDS. EVERYBODY IN THE OFFICE KNEW THAT SAMUEL HAD A SOFT CORNER FOR AVRIL, HE LIKES HER A LOT. TO SOME EXTENT, AVRIL ALSO LIKED SAMUEL. BUT BECAUSE OF HER PAST SHE WAS NOT READY TO ACCEPT ANY SUCH FEELING. SHE WOULD DENY ALL SUCH FEELINGS. AVRIL NEVER SHARED HER PAST WITH ANYBODY, NOT EVEN WITH SAMUEL, AS SHE NEVER FELT IT WAS NEEDED. SHE IS A STRONG HEADED GIRL, WHO FOUGHT ALL THE ODDS IN ORDER TO GROW IN HER LIFE. SHE LEFT EVERYTHING BEHIND, AND JUST FOCUSED ON HER PRESENT. A GIRL WHO IS VERY OPTIMISTIC, POSITIVE, AND CHEERFUL HAD HER OWN SHARE OF PAINS, WHICH SHE NEVER SHARED WITH ANYBODY. PEOPLE AT THE OFFICE LOOK UPON HER WHENEVER THEY FIND THEMSELVES STUCK. TODAY, AVRIL FELT REALLY ALONE AS SHE HAS NO ONE TO SHARE HER FEELINGS WITH. SHE CAN’T FIND ANYONE TO COUNT ON, SHE FEELS EXTREMELY SECLUDED. SHE MANAGED TO MAKE A CUP OF COFFEE FOR HERSELF, SHE SAT ON HER BALCONY AND STARTED SIPPING HER COFFEE. AND SUDDENLY SHE WAS THERE WHERE SHE NEVER WISHED TO GO….. IN HER PAST.
ALL HER PAST MEMORIES STARTED GUSHING OVER. SHE COULD SEE PAUL (HER EX-HUSBAND) PROPOSING HER FOR MARRIAGE. SHE WAS EXCITED, ENTHRALLED AND ON THE CLOUD NINE THAT DAY. WITHOUT WASTING A MOMENT SHE SAID ‘YES’ FOR THE WEDDING WITH PAUL. AS SHE ALWAYS WANTED TO MARRY HIM. SHE LOVED HIM ALWAYS FROM HER COLLEGE DAYS. IT WAS HER DREAM THAT CAME TRUE FOR HER. IN THE YEAR 2014, BOTH OF THEM GOT MARRIED IN A LAVISH WEDDING CELEBRATION THAT INCLUDED THEIR FRIENDS AND FAMILY MEMBERS. THEY CHOSE HAWAII FOR THEIR HONEYMOON AND SPENT 15 WONDERFUL DAYS THERE IN EACH OTHER’S COMPANY. THEY WERE THE BEST DAYS OF AVRIL’S LIFE. AFTER COMING BACK FROM THEIR HONEYMOON, THEY RESUMED THEIR OFFICES AND LIFE WAS GOING GOOD. UNTIL SIX MONTHS OF THEIR MARRIAGE, LIFE WAS GREAT. ONE DAY, AVRIL GOT A CALL FROM HER MOTHER THAT SHE IS NOT WELL. AVRIL CALLED PAUL AND TOLD HER THAT SHE IS LEAVING FOR HER MOTHER’S PLACE AND WOULD COME BACK AFTER A WEEK. SHE WENT TO HER MOTHER’S PLACE, LIVED THERE WITH HER MOM. AFTER FOUR DAYS SHE THOUGHT THAT SHE WOULD LEAVE A LITTLE EARLY AND SURPRISE PAUL. HER MOTHER WAS ALSO ABSOLUTELY FINE. SHE STARTED TWO DAYS BEFORE FOR HER HOME. ON THE TRAIN SHE WAS HAPPY WITH THE THOUGHT THAT SHE WAS GOING TO SURPRISE HER HUSBAND. SHE WAS PLANNING WHAT ALL SHE WOULD DO TO SURPRISE PAUL. SHE REACHED HOME, TOOK OUT HER KEYS AND ENTERED HER HOUSE, (THE HOUSE WHERE SHE STARTED HER MARRIED LIFE WITH THE LOVE OF HER LIFE PAUL). SHE HEADED TOWARDS HER BEDROOM TO KEEP HER BAGS AND RELAX A BIT, THE MOMENT SHE ENTERED HER ROOM, SHE GOT STARTLED.
WHAT SHE SAW WAS REALLY SHOCKING. PAUL WAS THERE IN THE BED ALONG WITH HIS BEST FRIEND LIZA. THEY WERE MAKING OUT, AND AVRIL NEVER REALIZED THAT PAUL WAS CHEATED ON HER. SHE WAS SHATTERED COMPLETELY, HER HEART BROKE. NOW SHE REALIZED THAT DIAMOND NECKLACE THAT SHE SAW SUDDENLY IN PAUL’S CAR WAS NOT FOR HER, IT WAS FOR LIZA. SHE COULD UNDERSTAND NOW, WHY SHE ALWAYS FELT THAT SHE LOVES PAUL MORE THAN HE DOES HER. SHE DIDN’T ASK ANYTHING FROM PAUL, SHE NEVER EXPECTED ANY EXPLANATION SHE WAS JUST BROKEN, COMPLETELY BROKEN. AND SHE JUST LEFT THE HOUSE, WHERE SHE WANTED TO SPEND ALL HER LIFE. WITH THAT SHE LEFT ALL HER DREAMS AND PAST BEHIND! SUDDENLY, THE DOORBELL RANG! AND WITH A START SHE CAME BACK IN THE PRESENT, BACK AGAIN IN THE BALCONY. SHE STOOD, WENT TO THE DOOR, AND OPENED THE DOOR. IT WAS SAMUEL STANDING WITH A BEAUTIFUL BOUQUET AND BROAD SMILE. AVRIL ALWAYS KNEW THAT SAMUEL IS A GREAT GUY, HIS FEELINGS ARE GENUINE AND HE IS A HAPPY-GO-LUCKY MAN. ANYBODY WOULD BE HAPPY TO HAVE HIM. “SHALL I GET IN OR YOU WILL LET ME STAND HERE ONLY,” ASKED SAMUEL.“AW! AH’ AM SORRY, JUST COME IN,” SAID AVRIL. AVRIL REALIZED THAT SHE ISN’T FEELING DISTURBED SEEING SAMUEL, IN FACT, SHE IS FEELING HAPPY. SHE NO MORE FEELS ALONE, PERHAPS SHE IS FEELING GROUNDED!“I WILL TELL EVERYTHING TO SAMUEL, BEFORE SAYING ‘YES” TO HIS PROPOSAL,” SAID AVRIL TO HERSELF WITH A SMILE!

HAPPY IN LOVE..

.kjoo TO BE HAPPY IN LOVE IS TO ALREADY LIVE IN ACCORDANCE WITH YOU. ONCE YOU HAVE A CLEARER VISION, THE BEST SOLUTION IS TO TALK AND SHARE YOUR FINDINGS WITH YOUR PARTNER. ” I THINK.. I WANT TO.. I NEED TO.. SHARE BUT DO NOT ASK FOR AN ANSWER IN THE MOMENT: AFTER ALL, YOUR CONCLUSIONS ARE BORN OF A REFLECTION. DON’T TAKE THE LACK OF RESPONSE FROM YOUR PARTNER AS AN AGGRESSION OR AS AN ABSENCE OF FEELING: HE/ SHE MAY ALSO NEED TO TAKE STOCK OF HIS DESIRES. UNDERSTAND THE SINGULARITY OF THE OTHER. THE WORST YOU CAN DO IS COMPARE YOUR LOVE RELATIONSHIP WITH THAT OF A FRIEND. HE/SHE HAS HIS OWN WAY OF EXPRESSING THEMSELVES, OWN WAY OF SHOWING LOVE AND OWN PERSONALITY. OWN EMOTIONAL WOUNDS AS WELL. MAKE THE EFFORT TO UNDERSTAND THE SINGULARITY OF THE OTHER IS THE FIRST KEY TO MAINTAINING ONE’S RELATIONSHIP. IT WILL ALLOW HIM/HER TO FEEL FREE, UNDERSTOOD, AND CONFIDENT AND FULFILLED.

THE TRUTH ABOUT MARRIAGE..

Me personally, I’m afraid to get married. When it comes to marriage and finding that person you want to marry, it’s kind of like walking on egg shells. You hear about married people that have cheated on their partner far to often. Some people just want to jump into marriage to soon. Being in a relationship and being in a marriage is two totally different things. If your in a relationship and the other person cheats, you can simply move on. But a marriage under those kind of circumstances is way more complicated. I think you should be with someone at least two years before married. Even though marriage is suppose to be a lifetime commitment, you hear about people getting divorces all the time. If my partner ever cheated, I would just hate to have to go through that. Marriage itself is a beautiful experience. But the after math could be a nightmare, depending on who you choose to marry.