DO YOU BELIEVE IN SOUL MATES?
Tag: Relationship
HOW TO RESPECTFULLY BREAKUP..
PEOPLE TEND TO ASK THE QUESTION, WHATS A GOOD WAY TO BREAKUP WITH SOMEONE OR HOW DO I TELL MY PARTNER I WANT TO BREAK UP. WELL, THERE IS A RIGHT AND A WRONG WAY TO BREAK UP WITH SOMEONE. (IN MY OPINION.) MAKE SURE YOU TWO ARE SOMEWHERE ALONE, SIT HIM/HER DOWN AND TELL THEM IN THE NICEST WAY POSSIBLE. DON’T KNOW THE RIGHT WORDS TO SAY? HERE’S A FEW:
- THIS RELATIONSHIP ISN’T WORKING.
- I’M READY TO BE SINGLE.
- I DON’T WANT TO BE WITH YOU ANYMORE.
- I THINK IT’S TIME WE PART WAYS.
- I DON’T WANT TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP ANYMORE OR RIGHT NOW.
LOVE AND INTIMACY
INTIMACY IS ALL ABOUT BEING LOVED AND EMBRACING THAT SPECIAL SOMEONE WITH OPEN ARMS. YOU UNDERSTAND THAT FOR A RELATIONSHIP TO THRIVE, BOTH PARTNERS SHOULD STAY CONNECTED AND COMMITTED. IT’S NOT JUST POSSIBLE TO FEEL WITHDRAWN AND HAVE FEELINGS FOR LOVE. LOVE DESIRES PROXIMITY SO THAT YOU CAN CONNECT WITH YOUR PARTNER AT AN EMOTIONAL, MENTAL, AND PHYSICAL LEVEL. LOVE IS AN OVERPOWERING SETTLED FEELING OF LOYALTY, HONESTY, RESPECT, TRUST, AND CARE, WHICH WELLS UP FROM DEEP INSIDE. INTIMACY, ON THE OTHER HAND, IS A RARE ELEMENT IN A RELATIONSHIP. TO FEEL VUNERABLE AND STILL SAFE AT THE SAME TIME IS ONLY POSSIBLE WITH INTIMACY.
MISSING PIECE..
HIS DAYS WERE SHORTER, NIGHTS WERE LONGER. THINGS FELT WRONG, LIKE A NEVER ENDING FIGHT. EVERYTHING WENT DIM, NOTHING WAS BRIGHT. UNTIL ONE DAY, THERE SHE WAS, AND FROM THAT MOMENT ON, EVERYTHING WAS RIGHT.
DID YOU KNOW..
A STRONG SENSE OF HUMOR IS ASSOCIATED WITH INTELLIGENCE AND HONESTY, WHICH IS WHY MOST WOMEN IS ATTRACTED TO MEN WITH A STRONG SENSE OF HUMOR.
FROM BITTER TO BETTER..
EVER SINCE THE CORONAVIRUS OUTBREAK, THINGS HAVE CHANGED TREMENDOUSLY. THIS IS A STORY ABOUT THE RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN JOHN AND ANITA AND THEIR RELATIONSHIP. AND ABOUT HOW THIS OUTBREAK HAS IMPACTED THEIR LIVES, ACTUALLY THEIR LOVE LIFE.
IT IS ABOUT THE RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN JOHN AND ANITA AND THEIR RELATIONSHIP.
AND ABOUT HOW THIS OUTBREAK HAS IMPACTED THEIR LIVES, ACTUALLY THEIR LOVE LIFE.
JOHN IS MARRIED TO A GORGEOUS LADY, ANITA, FOR THE PAST THREE YEARS. BUT, NOTHING WAS AS BEAUTIFUL AS IT ALWAYS LOOKED. HE AND ANITA WERE THE BEST FRIENDS, AND YEAH, THE BEST COUPLE TOO IN THEIR COLLEGE DAYS.
BUT THINGS ARE NOT THE SAME AS THEY WERE WHEN THEY WERE AT UNIVERSITY. JOHN MET ANITA AT UNIVERSITY, THE MOMENT HE SAW HER, HE WAS IN LOVE WITH HER. HE IMMEDIATELY KNEW THAT IT WAS LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT. HOWEVER, HE WAS A SHY TYPE OF PERSON, AND HE NEVER TRIED TO APPROACH HER.
THE ONLY BEST THING WAS, HE WAS THE TOPPER OF THE COLLEGE THAT MADE ANITA TALK TO HIM. ONE DAY SHE CAME TO JOHN FOR A LITTLE HELP IN ECONOMICS. AND JOHN WAS IN CLOUD NINE THE VERY MOMENT SHE APPROACHED HIM FOR HIS HELP. WITHOUT A SECOND THOUGHT, HE SAID YES TO HELP HER. FROM THAT DAY ONWARDS, THEY BECAME BUDDIES.
FOR QUITE A FEW YEARS, THEY REMAINED FRIENDS, AND THEN ONE DAY, JOHN PROPOSED HER. SHE SAID ‘YES’ TO HIS SURPRISE. JOHN NEVER HAD AN IDEA THAT ANITA WOULD SAY YES TO HIS PROPOSAL, BUT WHEN SHE DID, HE WAS MORE THAN HAPPY. THEY DATED FOR TWO YEARS, IN THOSE TWO YEARS THEY SHARED TOO MANY THINGS, THEY HAD FIGHTS, THEY MADE LOVE, THEY BROKE UP, AND THEY DID EVERYTHING THAT ANY OTHER COUPLE WOULD DO ON THIS EARTH. BUT IN THE END, THEY KNEW THEY COULD NOT LIVE WITHOUT EACH OTHER. BOTH JOHN AND ANITA GOT PLACED AFTER FINISHING COLLEGE, AND THEY DECIDED TO GET HITCHED.
JOHN AND ANITA GOT MARRIED ON AN ISLAND IN GREECE, SANTORINI. ANITA ALWAYS WANTED TO HAVE A DESTINATION WEDDING, SO JOHN CHOSE SANTORINI FOR THEIR WEDDING. EVERYTHING WAS DREAMLIKE.
WHEN JOHN SAW ANITA IN HER WEDDING GOWN, HE COULD NOT BELIEVE HIS EYES THAT HE WAS GETTING MARRIED TO THE MOST BEAUTIFUL WOMAN ON THE EARTH. BUT IT WAS HAPPENING
EVERYTHING WAS TERRIFIC BETWEEN THEM FOR THE FIRST YEAR; THEY HAD A LOVELY HONEYMOON IN GREECE ITSELF. THEY EVEN WENT TO ROME FOR A VACATION AFTER SIX MONTHS OF THEIR MARRIAGE. AND TO CELEBRATE THEIR FIRST WEDDING ANNIVERSARY, THEY TRIPPED TO BALI.
THEY CHOSE ALL THESE PLACES BECAUSE ALL THESE PLACES WERE IN ANITA’S WISH LIST. ALL JOHN WANTED WAS TO GIVE HER ALL THAT SHE WANTED IN HER LIFE. AFTER ALL, SHE WAS THE FIRST AND ONLY WOMAN JOHN LOVED IN HIS LIFE. YES, ANITA WAS THE WOMAN OF HIS DREAM.
BUT EVERYTHING CHANGED WHEN SHE JOINED HER NEW COMPANY A FEW MONTHS AFTER THEIR FIRST WEDDING ANNIVERSARY. NO, NO, SHE DIDN’T FALL FOR ANYONE. THINGS CHANGED BECAUSE THEIR TIMINGS CHANGED UTTERLY. SHE HAD NIGHT SHIFTS MOST OF THE TIME, AND JOHN’S SCHEDULE WAS THE SAME; HE WAS WORKING 9 TO 6 JOB. SO, ONLY ON WEEKENDS, THEY WOULD SEE EACH OTHER. GRADUALLY, THEY STARTED TO GET AGITATED WITH EACH OTHER. THEY STARTED FIGHTING, YELLING, COMPLAINING, AND WHATNOT.
OUT OF AGITATION, THE LAST YEAR, ANITA LEFT JOHN FOR A MONTH AND STARTED LIVING WITH HER MOM. SOMEHOW JOHN CONVINCED HER TO COME BACK, BUT IT WAS NEVER GOOD AGAIN. BUT THE CORONAVIRUS PANDEMIC CHANGED EVERYTHING IN THEIR LIVES. FOR MANY, IT WOULD BE A BANE, BUT FOR JOHN AND ANITA, IT TURNED OUT TO BE A BOON. WHEN THE LOCKDOWN WAS ANNOUNCED, AND PEOPLE WERE ASKED TO WORK FROM HOME, THE FIRST THING THAT CAME IN JOHN’S MIND WAS – HOW ARE THEY GOING TO TOLERATE EACH OTHER. INITIALLY, FOR THE FIRST TWO WEEKS, IT WAS CHALLENGING.
BUT SLOWLY THINGS STARTED TO CHANGE FOR GOOD. THEY GOT PALLY, OF COURSE, HOW LONG ANYBODY CAN TALK ON THE PHONE, OR WATCH TV. THERE WAS A TIME WHEN THEY HARDLY MADE LOVE, AT LEAST FOR THE PAST SIX MONTHS, THEY WERE LIVING A HOSTILE LIFE. THEY WERE UTTERLY HOSTILE TO EACH OTHER UNTIL THE CORONA CAME. BUT THINGS WERE CHANGING, AND THEY WERE CHANGING FOR THE GOOD. THEY STARTED COMING CLOSE TO EACH OTHER. THEY STARTED MAKING LOVE, SHARING IDEAS, THINGS BETWEEN THEM BEGAN TO CHANGE FROM BITTER TO BETTER.
HOWEVER, DURING THESE DAYS, THEY WERE SPEAKING WITH EACH OTHER, SHARED THEIR WORK-RELATED THINGS, TALKED ABOUT THEIR PROBLEMS, PONDERED OVER WHAT WENT WRONG, RESOLVED THEIR ISSUES, THEY WERE FALLING IN LOVE WITH EACH OTHER ONE MORE TIME. IT IS BECAUSE OF THE TIME THAT THEY GOT DURING THE LOCKDOWN. AND THEY REALIZED THAT TIME WAS THE ISSUE THAT MADE THEIR RELATIONSHIP SO BITTER ALL THESE DAYS. NOW, BOTH OF THEM ARE SET TO WORK IT OUT. PROBABLY PLANNING A KID TOO…. THEY USED THIS TIME TO HEAL THEIR RELATIONSHIP; YOU CAN ALSO DO THE SAME.
EVER SINCE THE CORONAVIRUS OUTBREAK, THINGS HAVE CHANGED TREMENDOUSLY. THIS IS A STORY ABOUT THE RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN JOHN AND ANITA AND THEIR RELATIONSHIP. AND ABOUT HOW THIS OUTBREAK HAS IMPACTED THEIR LIVES, ACTUALLY THEIR LOVE LIFE.
IT IS ABOUT THE RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN JOHN AND ANITA AND THEIR RELATIONSHIP.
AND ABOUT HOW THIS OUTBREAK HAS IMPACTED THEIR LIVES, ACTUALLY THEIR LOVE LIFE.
JOHN IS MARRIED TO A GORGEOUS LADY, ANITA, FOR THE PAST THREE YEARS. BUT, NOTHING WAS AS BEAUTIFUL AS IT ALWAYS LOOKED. HE AND ANITA WERE THE BEST FRIENDS, AND YEAH, THE BEST COUPLE TOO IN THEIR COLLEGE DAYS.
BUT THINGS ARE NOT THE SAME AS THEY WERE WHEN THEY WERE AT UNIVERSITY. JOHN MET ANITA AT UNIVERSITY, THE MOMENT HE SAW HER, HE WAS IN LOVE WITH HER. HE IMMEDIATELY KNEW THAT IT WAS LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT. HOWEVER, HE WAS A SHY TYPE OF PERSON, AND HE NEVER TRIED TO APPROACH HER.
THE ONLY BEST THING WAS, HE WAS THE TOPPER OF THE COLLEGE THAT MADE ANITA TALK TO HIM. ONE DAY SHE CAME TO JOHN FOR A LITTLE HELP IN ECONOMICS. AND JOHN WAS IN CLOUD NINE THE VERY MOMENT SHE APPROACHED HIM FOR HIS HELP. WITHOUT A SECOND THOUGHT, HE SAID YES TO HELP HER. FROM THAT DAY ONWARDS, THEY BECAME BUDDIES.
FOR QUITE A FEW YEARS, THEY REMAINED FRIENDS, AND THEN ONE DAY, JOHN PROPOSED HER. SHE SAID ‘YES’ TO HIS SURPRISE. JOHN NEVER HAD AN IDEA THAT ANITA WOULD SAY YES TO HIS PROPOSAL, BUT WHEN SHE DID, HE WAS MORE THAN HAPPY. THEY DATED FOR TWO YEARS, IN THOSE TWO YEARS THEY SHARED TOO MANY THINGS, THEY HAD FIGHTS, THEY MADE LOVE, THEY BROKE UP, AND THEY DID EVERYTHING THAT ANY OTHER COUPLE WOULD DO ON THIS EARTH. BUT IN THE END, THEY KNEW THEY COULD NOT LIVE WITHOUT EACH OTHER. BOTH JOHN AND ANITA GOT PLACED AFTER FINISHING COLLEGE, AND THEY DECIDED TO GET HITCHED.
JOHN AND ANITA GOT MARRIED ON AN ISLAND IN GREECE, SANTORINI. ANITA ALWAYS WANTED TO HAVE A DESTINATION WEDDING, SO JOHN CHOSE SANTORINI FOR THEIR WEDDING. EVERYTHING WAS DREAMLIKE.
WHEN JOHN SAW ANITA IN HER WEDDING GOWN, HE COULD NOT BELIEVE HIS EYES THAT HE WAS GETTING MARRIED TO THE MOST BEAUTIFUL WOMAN ON THE EARTH. BUT IT WAS HAPPENING
EVERYTHING WAS TERRIFIC BETWEEN THEM FOR THE FIRST YEAR; THEY HAD A LOVELY HONEYMOON IN GREECE ITSELF. THEY EVEN WENT TO ROME FOR A VACATION AFTER SIX MONTHS OF THEIR MARRIAGE. AND TO CELEBRATE THEIR FIRST WEDDING ANNIVERSARY, THEY TRIPPED TO BALI.
THEY CHOSE ALL THESE PLACES BECAUSE ALL THESE PLACES WERE IN ANITA’S WISH LIST. ALL JOHN WANTED WAS TO GIVE HER ALL THAT SHE WANTED IN HER LIFE. AFTER ALL, SHE WAS THE FIRST AND ONLY WOMAN JOHN LOVED IN HIS LIFE. YES, ANITA WAS THE WOMAN OF HIS DREAM.
BUT EVERYTHING CHANGED WHEN SHE JOINED HER NEW COMPANY A FEW MONTHS AFTER THEIR FIRST WEDDING ANNIVERSARY. NO, NO, SHE DIDN’T FALL FOR ANYONE. THINGS CHANGED BECAUSE THEIR TIMINGS CHANGED UTTERLY. SHE HAD NIGHT SHIFTS MOST OF THE TIME, AND JOHN’S SCHEDULE WAS THE SAME; HE WAS WORKING 9 TO 6 JOB. SO, ONLY ON WEEKENDS, THEY WOULD SEE EACH OTHER. GRADUALLY, THEY STARTED TO GET AGITATED WITH EACH OTHER. THEY STARTED FIGHTING, YELLING, COMPLAINING, AND WHATNOT.
OUT OF AGITATION, THE LAST YEAR, ANITA LEFT JOHN FOR A MONTH AND STARTED LIVING WITH HER MOM. SOMEHOW JOHN CONVINCED HER TO COME BACK, BUT IT WAS NEVER GOOD AGAIN. BUT THE CORONAVIRUS PANDEMIC CHANGED EVERYTHING IN THEIR LIVES. FOR MANY, IT WOULD BE A BANE, BUT FOR JOHN AND ANITA, IT TURNED OUT TO BE A BOON. WHEN THE LOCKDOWN WAS ANNOUNCED, AND PEOPLE WERE ASKED TO WORK FROM HOME, THE FIRST THING THAT CAME IN JOHN’S MIND WAS – HOW ARE THEY GOING TO TOLERATE EACH OTHER. INITIALLY, FOR THE FIRST TWO WEEKS, IT WAS CHALLENGING.
BUT SLOWLY THINGS STARTED TO CHANGE FOR GOOD. THEY GOT PALLY, OF COURSE, HOW LONG ANYBODY CAN TALK ON THE PHONE, OR WATCH TV. THERE WAS A TIME WHEN THEY HARDLY MADE LOVE, AT LEAST FOR THE PAST SIX MONTHS, THEY WERE LIVING A HOSTILE LIFE. THEY WERE UTTERLY HOSTILE TO EACH OTHER UNTIL THE CORONA CAME. BUT THINGS WERE CHANGING, AND THEY WERE CHANGING FOR THE GOOD. THEY STARTED COMING CLOSE TO EACH OTHER. THEY STARTED MAKING LOVE, SHARING IDEAS, THINGS BETWEEN THEM BEGAN TO CHANGE FROM BITTER TO BETTER.
HOWEVER, DURING THESE DAYS, THEY WERE SPEAKING WITH EACH OTHER, SHARED THEIR WORK-RELATED THINGS, TALKED ABOUT THEIR PROBLEMS, PONDERED OVER WHAT WENT WRONG, RESOLVED THEIR ISSUES, THEY WERE FALLING IN LOVE WITH EACH OTHER ONE MORE TIME. IT IS BECAUSE OF THE TIME THAT THEY GOT DURING THE LOCKDOWN. AND THEY REALIZED THAT TIME WAS THE ISSUE THAT MADE THEIR RELATIONSHIP SO BITTER ALL THESE DAYS. NOW, BOTH OF THEM ARE SET TO WORK IT OUT. PROBABLY PLANNING A KID TOO…. THEY USED THIS TIME TO HEAL THEIR RELATIONSHIP; YOU CAN ALSO DO THE SAME.
THE MOMENT..
WHEN YOU SAW HIM/HER AND EVERYTHING CHANGED. ITS LIKE YOU INSTANTLY WENT INTO A FANTASY REALITY THAT WAS TO GOOD TO BE TRUE. IT WAS A FEELING YOU WANTED TO ALWAYS FEEL, AN EXPERIENCE YOU NEVER WANTED TO END. IT’S LIKE HE/SHE WAS TO GOOD TO BE TRUE. WAIT, AND THE BEST THINGS WILL COME, IN THE MOMENT YOU LEAST EXPECT.
HAVING YOU IS LIKE..
BEING WITH YOU IS LIKE BEING ON AN AMAZING VACATION.
HOLDING YOU IS LIKE HOLDING A VERY VALUABLE EXPENSIVE GEM.
KISSING YOU IS LIKE ENTERING INTO A FANTASY REALITY THAT IS TO GOOD TO BE TRUE.
BE WITH SOMEONE THAT TRULY CHANGES HOW YOU FELL.
LET LOVE FLOW POEM..
BE FREE!
FROM ALL ANXIETIES
OF ALL YOUR WORRIES
AS YOUR WORRIES WON’T LET YOU BE YOU
MAY END UP HAVING NO CLUE
DON’T LET YOURSELF DERAIL
DON’T ALLOW YOURSELF TO FAIL
BE FREE!
BE FREE OF ALL LIMITATIONS
CELEBRATE WITHOUT BOUNDATION
I MAY NOT BE THE PERFECT ONE
BUT UNDERSTAND MY INTENTION
NO SOCIETAL OBLIGATION IS REQUIRED
LOVE IS WHAT IS ALL DESIRED
BE FREE!
BE FREE FROM A LL DISRUPTION
I WON’T BE A INTERRUPTION
LO AND BEHOLD
DON’T JUST WITHHOLD
GO SLOW AND GROW
LET ONLY LOVE FLOW
BE FREE!
BE FREE OF ALL PERFECTION
AND IMPERFECTION
FOR LOVE IS BEYOND ALL RESTRICTION
LEAVE NO SPACE FOR AFFLICTION
LOVE IS WHAT YOU AND I NEED
LET IT FLOW AND BE FREED!
A SHORT LOVE POEM..
A JOURNEY OF TRUE LOVE, SPREADING WINGS OF FRIENDSHIP WIDE LIKE A DOVE.
FLOATING IN A BOAT NEEDS PADDLING AT BOTH, CROSSING WAVES OF DISHONESTY HIGH AND ABOVE. IF THERE IS A VACUUM, FILL IT WITH BELIEF, THIS RELATIONSHIP MAY NOT BE PERFECT BUT DO NOT LEAVE.
FEEL SORROW FOR THOSE EMPTY OF AFFECTION, ALL THEY SEE DESPISE AND NOTHING LESS THAN GRIEF.
I FEEL A CONNECTION, I LIKE BEING AROUND YOU, WHAT DO YOU CALL THIS RELATIONSHIP? LAW OF ATTRACTION OR FLAW IN A FACTION.
WISH THE FAIRY TALES WERE TRUE TO BELIEVE, YOU WOULD COME BACK EVEN WHEN YOU LEAVE.
YOU CALL IT CALM BEFORE THE STORM, IT IS LOVE THAT HAS MADE ME COME THROUGH THICK AND THIN, IS IT A NORM? STAY CLOSE STAY MINE, IT IS NOT THE END IF IT IS NOT FINE.
DOES YOUR RELATIONSHIP HAVE THIS..
IF YOUR RELATIONSHIP IS LACKING EITHER OF THESE, THERE NEEDS TO BE WORK DONE.
T: TRUST
L:LOYALTY
C:COMMUNICATION
R:RESPECT
ADMITTING WRONGS..
BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEONE WHO DON’T ADMIT THEIR WRONGS MAY NOT BE A GOOD THING. A REAL MAN/WOMAN IS GOING TO ADMIT WHEN THEY’RE WRONG. EVERYONE KNOWS WRONG FROM RIGHT. SOME PEOPLE WILL DO YOU WRONG AND HURT YOU, AND YET IT’S LIKE THEY DON’T SEE IT. THIS CAN BE REALLY ANNOYING AND FRUSTRATING. ANYONE THAT CAN’T ADMIT THEIR WRONGS CLEARLY HAVE ISSUES THAT THEY NEED TO WORK ON. WE SOMETIMES HURT OUR PARTNER INTENTIONALLY AND UNINTENTIONALLY. YOU MAY PURPOSELY HURT YOUR PARTNER DUE TO SOMETHING THEY DID. BUT TWO WRONGS DON’T MAKE A RIGHT. NO ONE IS PERFECT. BUT YOU CAN RIGHT YOUR WRONG BY ADMITTING YOU WAS WRONG IN THE FIRST PLACE. TELL THEM HOW IT MADE YOU FEEL WHEN YOU SAW HIM/HER DO OR SAY WHATEVER IT WAS YOU DIDN’T LIKE. WAIT FOR AN APOLOGY, IF HE/SHE DON’T APOLOGIZE, YOU MAY WANT TO START RETHINKING YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH THAT INDIVIDUAL.
LOVE IS POWERFUL..
LOVE IS SO POWERFUL, IT WILL MAKE YOU DO THINGS YOU WOULDN’T NORMALLY DO, FEEL WAYS YOU WOULDN’T NORMALLY FEEL. DO YOU UNDERESTIMATE THE POWER OF LOVE?
RELATIONSHIP ADVICE..
SHORT RELATIONSHIP POEM..
THE LIES OF LOVE SEPARATES TWO ATTACHED DOVES, BRING A SHINE TO MY WHINE, LET’S FLY BEYOND AND ABOVE.
THINKING OF TIMES WE BOND TOGETHER, NOW BALANCING OUR RELATIONSHIP ON
A SINGLE FEATHER, PERHAPS I THOUGHT AND BELIEVED IN YOU, TO BE BETTER.
STAY CLOSE BUT NOT TOO NEAR, CAUSE I DO NOT WANT TO SEE ANOTHER LAYER,
DON’T LEAVE ME IN DARK, I AM STRANGLING IN FEAR.
HOLD ME TIGHT AND MAKE IT RIGHT, GIVE US ANOTHER CHANCE TO GET THROUGH THE NIGHT.
BEHOLD! I CAN WITNESS SOME HOPE AND A SPARKLING LIGHT.
IT’S NEVER OK..
SO IS IT THAT SOME PEOPLE THINK JUST BECAUSE THEY ARE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEONE OR EVEN A MARRIAGE, THAT THAT PERSON HAVE THE RIGHT TO PUT THEIR HANDS ON THEM ANY KIND OF WAY? I OFTEN WONDER ABOUT THIS. DO YOU THINK THIS MAY BE WHY THEY DON’T DEFEND THEMSELVES? WELL NEWS FLASH, NO ONE AND I MEAN NO ONE HAVE THAT RIGHT TO DO HARM TO YOU. IT IS NEVER OK AND YOU DON’T HAVE TO PUT UP WITH IT. YOU NEVER HAVE TO BE SOMEONE’S PUNCHING BAG. YOU ALWAYS DESERVE BETTER WHETHER YOU BELIEVE YOU DO OR NOT. I DECIDED TO WRITE THIS BECAUSE MAYBE IT COULD GET THROUGH TO SOMEONE THAT NEEDS TO SEE IT.
A PROPOSAL LOVE STORY..
AS USUAL AVRIL’S DAY STARTED WITH AN ALARM AT 6 IN THE MORNING. SHE FELT LIKE NOT LEAVING THE BED; HOWEVER, IT IS NOT HER USUAL ROUTINE. SHE IS IN FACT, VERY ACTIVE, SHE DOES YOGA AND RUNS IN THE MORNING. BUT IT IS NOT THE SAME TODAY, SHE FEELS LOW AND HELPLESS IN HER OWN WORLD. AVRIL, A TEAM LEAD IN A SOFTWARE COMPANY HAS ALWAYS BEEN A DEDICATED PERSON TOWARDS HER WORK AND LIFE. ALWAYS A PROBLEM SOLVER IS NOW STRUGGLING TO GET ANSWERS FOR HER OWN LIFE. SHE FEELS LOW, DEPRESSED, AND HELPLESS SINCE LAST WEEK, AFTER SAMUEL PROPOSED AVRIL FOR MARRIAGE, SHE IS FEELING LIKE THIS. AS SHE NEVER EXPECTED SOMETHING LIKE THAT IS GOING TO HAPPEN IN HER LIFE. AVRIL AND SAMUEL HAVE BEEN GREAT FRIENDS SINCE DAY ONE WHEN THEY MET IN THE OFFICE DURING INDUCTION IN THE YEAR 2016. AS BOTH OF THEM WERE NEW AND FRESHER, THEY COULD CONNECT WELL. GRADUALLY THEY BECAME GOOD FRIENDS. HOWEVER, JUST A YEAR BACK SAMUEL CHANGED HIS COMPANY AND JOINED SOME OTHERS, STILL THEY WERE GOOD FRIENDS AND USED TO CATCH UP ON WEEKENDS. EVERYBODY IN THE OFFICE KNEW THAT SAMUEL HAD A SOFT CORNER FOR AVRIL, HE LIKES HER A LOT. TO SOME EXTENT, AVRIL ALSO LIKED SAMUEL. BUT BECAUSE OF HER PAST SHE WAS NOT READY TO ACCEPT ANY SUCH FEELING. SHE WOULD DENY ALL SUCH FEELINGS. AVRIL NEVER SHARED HER PAST WITH ANYBODY, NOT EVEN WITH SAMUEL, AS SHE NEVER FELT IT WAS NEEDED. SHE IS A STRONG HEADED GIRL, WHO FOUGHT ALL THE ODDS IN ORDER TO GROW IN HER LIFE. SHE LEFT EVERYTHING BEHIND, AND JUST FOCUSED ON HER PRESENT. A GIRL WHO IS VERY OPTIMISTIC, POSITIVE, AND CHEERFUL HAD HER OWN SHARE OF PAINS, WHICH SHE NEVER SHARED WITH ANYBODY. PEOPLE AT THE OFFICE LOOK UPON HER WHENEVER THEY FIND THEMSELVES STUCK. TODAY, AVRIL FELT REALLY ALONE AS SHE HAS NO ONE TO SHARE HER FEELINGS WITH. SHE CAN’T FIND ANYONE TO COUNT ON, SHE FEELS EXTREMELY SECLUDED. SHE MANAGED TO MAKE A CUP OF COFFEE FOR HERSELF, SHE SAT ON HER BALCONY AND STARTED SIPPING HER COFFEE. AND SUDDENLY SHE WAS THERE WHERE SHE NEVER WISHED TO GO….. IN HER PAST.
ALL HER PAST MEMORIES STARTED GUSHING OVER. SHE COULD SEE PAUL (HER EX-HUSBAND) PROPOSING HER FOR MARRIAGE. SHE WAS EXCITED, ENTHRALLED AND ON THE CLOUD NINE THAT DAY. WITHOUT WASTING A MOMENT SHE SAID ‘YES’ FOR THE WEDDING WITH PAUL. AS SHE ALWAYS WANTED TO MARRY HIM. SHE LOVED HIM ALWAYS FROM HER COLLEGE DAYS. IT WAS HER DREAM THAT CAME TRUE FOR HER. IN THE YEAR 2014, BOTH OF THEM GOT MARRIED IN A LAVISH WEDDING CELEBRATION THAT INCLUDED THEIR FRIENDS AND FAMILY MEMBERS. THEY CHOSE HAWAII FOR THEIR HONEYMOON AND SPENT 15 WONDERFUL DAYS THERE IN EACH OTHER’S COMPANY. THEY WERE THE BEST DAYS OF AVRIL’S LIFE. AFTER COMING BACK FROM THEIR HONEYMOON, THEY RESUMED THEIR OFFICES AND LIFE WAS GOING GOOD. UNTIL SIX MONTHS OF THEIR MARRIAGE, LIFE WAS GREAT. ONE DAY, AVRIL GOT A CALL FROM HER MOTHER THAT SHE IS NOT WELL. AVRIL CALLED PAUL AND TOLD HER THAT SHE IS LEAVING FOR HER MOTHER’S PLACE AND WOULD COME BACK AFTER A WEEK. SHE WENT TO HER MOTHER’S PLACE, LIVED THERE WITH HER MOM. AFTER FOUR DAYS SHE THOUGHT THAT SHE WOULD LEAVE A LITTLE EARLY AND SURPRISE PAUL. HER MOTHER WAS ALSO ABSOLUTELY FINE. SHE STARTED TWO DAYS BEFORE FOR HER HOME. ON THE TRAIN SHE WAS HAPPY WITH THE THOUGHT THAT SHE WAS GOING TO SURPRISE HER HUSBAND. SHE WAS PLANNING WHAT ALL SHE WOULD DO TO SURPRISE PAUL. SHE REACHED HOME, TOOK OUT HER KEYS AND ENTERED HER HOUSE, (THE HOUSE WHERE SHE STARTED HER MARRIED LIFE WITH THE LOVE OF HER LIFE PAUL). SHE HEADED TOWARDS HER BEDROOM TO KEEP HER BAGS AND RELAX A BIT, THE MOMENT SHE ENTERED HER ROOM, SHE GOT STARTLED.
WHAT SHE SAW WAS REALLY SHOCKING. PAUL WAS THERE IN THE BED ALONG WITH HIS BEST FRIEND LIZA. THEY WERE MAKING OUT, AND AVRIL NEVER REALIZED THAT PAUL WAS CHEATED ON HER. SHE WAS SHATTERED COMPLETELY, HER HEART BROKE. NOW SHE REALIZED THAT DIAMOND NECKLACE THAT SHE SAW SUDDENLY IN PAUL’S CAR WAS NOT FOR HER, IT WAS FOR LIZA. SHE COULD UNDERSTAND NOW, WHY SHE ALWAYS FELT THAT SHE LOVES PAUL MORE THAN HE DOES HER. SHE DIDN’T ASK ANYTHING FROM PAUL, SHE NEVER EXPECTED ANY EXPLANATION SHE WAS JUST BROKEN, COMPLETELY BROKEN. AND SHE JUST LEFT THE HOUSE, WHERE SHE WANTED TO SPEND ALL HER LIFE. WITH THAT SHE LEFT ALL HER DREAMS AND PAST BEHIND! SUDDENLY, THE DOORBELL RANG! AND WITH A START SHE CAME BACK IN THE PRESENT, BACK AGAIN IN THE BALCONY. SHE STOOD, WENT TO THE DOOR, AND OPENED THE DOOR. IT WAS SAMUEL STANDING WITH A BEAUTIFUL BOUQUET AND BROAD SMILE. AVRIL ALWAYS KNEW THAT SAMUEL IS A GREAT GUY, HIS FEELINGS ARE GENUINE AND HE IS A HAPPY-GO-LUCKY MAN. ANYBODY WOULD BE HAPPY TO HAVE HIM. “SHALL I GET IN OR YOU WILL LET ME STAND HERE ONLY,” ASKED SAMUEL.“AW! AH’ AM SORRY, JUST COME IN,” SAID AVRIL. AVRIL REALIZED THAT SHE ISN’T FEELING DISTURBED SEEING SAMUEL, IN FACT, SHE IS FEELING HAPPY. SHE NO MORE FEELS ALONE, PERHAPS SHE IS FEELING GROUNDED!“I WILL TELL EVERYTHING TO SAMUEL, BEFORE SAYING ‘YES” TO HIS PROPOSAL,” SAID AVRIL TO HERSELF WITH A SMILE!
A LOVE STORY INSPIRED BY TRUE EVENTS..
A RELATIONSHIP OF LOVE, RESPECT, AND UNDERSTANDING, A LOVE STORY THAT HAS NO INCEPTION BUT AN ENDING OF SHATTERED DREAMS. IT WAS CERTAINLY NOT A MAINSTREAM RELATIONSHIP WITH RELATIONSHIP PROBLEMS, CONFLICTS OR ARGUMENTS, THERE WAS HARMONY AND APPRECIATION IN EVERY STEP OF TOGETHERNESS. THE WORLD BELIEVED SOMETHING MORE THAN JUST A COMPANY OR FRIENDSHIP BUT IT WAS NOT IN SHADOWS OF THE DOUBTS FOR THE COUPLE. THE BOY WAS RECKLESS AT TIMES BUT HAS A GOOD HEART AND IS GENTLE BY NATURE WHEREAS, THE GIRL WAS GOING THROUGH A BREAK-UP AS HER RELATIONSHIP IS NOT GOING WELL AND COUNTERING BUMPS IN THE ROAD.TWO ABSOLUTE STRANGERS FOR A STARTER, FOR LOVE TO SPARK, THERE HAS TO BE SOMETHING COMMON, IN THERE CASE THEY HAVE MUTUAL FRIEND, HE IS THE CHILDHOOD FRIEND OF THE BOY AND STUDIES IN THE SAME CLASS WITH THE GIRL. CALLING HIM A CUPID WON’T BE AN UNDERSTATEMENT, HOWEVER, HE ARRANGES A MEETING AT A SOCIAL EVENT BUT THE GIRL DOES NOT SHOW UP BECAUSE SHE WAS ASKED OUT FOR THE LAST TIME BY HER SOON-TO-BE-EX-BOYFRIEND.THE BOY AND HIS FRIEND ENJOY THEIR TIME AND LEAVE. THE OTHER DAY, THE BOY RECEIVES A MESSAGE, HEY! HE KNEW THAT IT WAS THE GIRL’S NUMBER IMMEDIATELY, THERE WAS A CONNECTION I GUESS,THEN THEY TEXTED BACK AND FORTH TILL THE NIGHT GOT DARKER AND STARS GOT BRIGHTER. AS TIME PASSED BY THEY BOTH FEEL COMFORTABLE AND ENJOYED EACH OTHER’S HUMOR, SHARE THEIR OPINIONS, DID DISCUSSIONS, AND MADE UNSUCCESSFUL PLANS OF MEETING. THEIR FRIENDS’ CIRCLE ALREADY KNOWS THERE IS SOMETHING FISHY BETWEEN THEM BUT THE BOY AND GIRL NEVER ADMIT NOR HAD ANY INTENTIONS.UNPRECEDENTEDLY, THEY MEET AFTER A MONTH OF TEXTING AT A RESTAURANT. IT IS ONE OF THE BEST DAYS BOTH HAD, THEY TALKED, LAUGHED, AND HAD FUN UNTIL THERE WAYS APART. THEY START TO MEET REGULARLY AND MAYBE STARTED TO FEEL FOR EACH OTHER.THEY TAKE LONG WALKS WITHOUT HOLDING HANDS( VERY UNROMANTIC THOUGH) CALL EACH OTHER FOR HOURS, SHARE SIMILAR THOUGHTS ON MANY THINGS ANS POSSESS DIFFERENT OPINIONS AS WELL. THE UNLIKELINESS IS SO ON-POINT THAT THEY NEVER FACE RELATIONSHIP PROBLEMS.REMEMBER THAT’S MUTUAL FRIEND? HE CONFRONTS THE BOY AND ASKS ABOUT THE RELATIONSHIP AND IN REPLY THE BOY SAYS, I DO NOT MAN, SHE IS PRETTY AND I DON’T KNOW SHE THINKS THE SAME OR SHE EVEN LIKES ME. THE FRIEND ASKS THE SAME THING FROM THE GIRL AND SHE REPLIES, HE HAS NOT APPROACHED ME YET AND I DON’T THINK IF HE LIKES ME IN THAT WAY, ALTHOUGH HE IS CUTE AND ALL BUT I DON’T KNOW UNCERTAINTY IN A RELATIONSHIP IS THE FIRST STEP BUT IT WAS THE LAST IN THIS ONE. ONE DAY SHE GETS A MARRIAGE PROPOSAL AND HER PARENTS ACCEPTED IT AND SURPRISINGLY SHE INDULGES HERSELF IN THAT RELATIONSHIP. THE BOY GOT THE NEWS FROM HIS FRIEND, HE GOT CONFUSED, A BIT HEARTBROKEN AND FELT DISAPPROVED BUT WISHED HER LUCK AND PRAYED FOR THE BEST AND NEVER CONTACTED HER AGAIN
