DON’T MEAN…

I DON’T MEAN TO HURT YOU IF I DO.

I DON’T MEAN FOR THINGS TO GO THE WAY THEY GO.

I DON’T MEAN TO BE DISAPPOINTING.

I DON’T MEAN TO IRRITATE YOU IF I DO.

I DON’T MEAN TO CAUSE THINGS TO FALL APART.

AFTER ALL I’M NOT PERFECT, NONE OF US ARE.

PERFECT PERSON..

ARE YOU SINGLE AND LOOKING? DO YOU FEEL LIKE YOU HAVE BAD LUCK BECAUSE MR/MS PERFECT HAVEN’T APPEARED IN YOUR LIFE YET? OR HAVE YOU DECIDED THAT MAYBE MS/MR PERFECT DON’T REALLY EXIST? THAT’S IT, HE/SHE ONLY EXIST IN YOUR IMAGINATION. THE REASON THIS PERFECT PERSON HAVEN’T APPEARED IS BECAUSE HE/SHE ONLY EXIST IN YOUR IMAGINATION. YOU MAY FEEL LIKE THE MEN/WOMEN YOU HAVE MET COULD NOT GIVE YOU WHAT YOU WANT. BUT WHAT IS IT THAT YOU WANTED IN THE FIRST PLACE? ONCE YOUR 100% SURE OF WHAT YOU WANT, YOU WILL THEN KNOW EXACTLY WHAT TO LOOK FOR. WHAT QUALITIES DO YOU FEEL ARE NECESSARY? NO ONE IS PERFECT, WE ALL HAVE FAULTS. ITS BETTER TO FOCUS ON YOUR NEEDS AND DESIRES, AND HOW MUCH OF THAT WOULD BE FUFILLED IF YOU DATED THIS PERSON.

HOW TO RESPECTFULLY BREAKUP..

PEOPLE TEND TO ASK THE QUESTION, WHATS A GOOD WAY TO BREAKUP WITH SOMEONE OR HOW DO I TELL MY PARTNER I WANT TO BREAK UP. WELL, THERE IS A RIGHT AND A WRONG WAY TO BREAK UP WITH SOMEONE. (IN MY OPINION.) MAKE SURE YOU TWO ARE SOMEWHERE ALONE, SIT HIM/HER DOWN AND TELL THEM IN THE NICEST WAY POSSIBLE. DON’T KNOW THE RIGHT WORDS TO SAY? HERE’S A FEW:

  1. THIS RELATIONSHIP ISN’T WORKING.
  2. I’M READY TO BE SINGLE.
  3. I DON’T WANT TO BE WITH YOU ANYMORE.
  4. I THINK IT’S TIME WE PART WAYS.
  5. I DON’T WANT TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP ANYMORE OR RIGHT NOW.

LOVE AND INTIMACY

INTIMACY IS ALL ABOUT BEING LOVED AND EMBRACING THAT SPECIAL SOMEONE WITH OPEN ARMS. YOU UNDERSTAND THAT FOR A RELATIONSHIP TO THRIVE, BOTH PARTNERS SHOULD STAY CONNECTED AND COMMITTED. IT’S NOT JUST POSSIBLE TO FEEL WITHDRAWN AND HAVE FEELINGS FOR LOVE. LOVE DESIRES PROXIMITY SO THAT YOU CAN CONNECT WITH YOUR PARTNER AT AN EMOTIONAL, MENTAL, AND PHYSICAL LEVEL. LOVE IS AN OVERPOWERING SETTLED FEELING OF LOYALTY, HONESTY, RESPECT, TRUST, AND CARE, WHICH WELLS UP FROM DEEP INSIDE. INTIMACY, ON THE OTHER HAND, IS A RARE ELEMENT IN A RELATIONSHIP. TO FEEL VUNERABLE AND STILL SAFE AT THE SAME TIME IS ONLY POSSIBLE WITH INTIMACY.