LOVE IS NOT SUPPOSE TO BE PAINFUL AT ALL. YOU CAN LOVE SOMEONE SO MUCH BUT THEY DON’T LOVE YOU AS MUCH. YOU LOVING THEM ISN’T PAINFUL, IT’S THE FACT THAT YOU KNOW OR SUSPECT THEY DON’T FEEL THE SAME WAY TOWARDS YOU IS WHAT’S PAINFUL. IT HURTS WHEN YOU LOVE AND WANT SOMEONE SO MUCH, BUT THEY DON’T FEEL THE SAME WAY. SOME PEOPLE WILL SPLIT WITH SOMEONE THAT LOVE THEM WITHOUT LITTLE TO NO EXPLANATION. PEOPLE THAT HAVE HAD THESE KINDS OF EXPERIENCES WOULD PROBABLY SAY “LOVE IS PAINFUL” BUT IN ALL HONESTY, THAT’S JUST NOT TRUE. LOVE ITSELF IS A POSITIVE THING. BUT CERTAIN EXPERIENCES CAN MAKE IT SEEM OTHER WISE. BUT THEN AGAIN, THIS IS MY OPINION. BECAUSE THEY DON’T FEEL THE SAME WAY YOU DO TOWARDS THEM. SOME PEOPLE TEND TO NOT WANT TO LOVE ANYONE ELSE AFTER THESE KINDS OF EXPERIENCES. THEY BLAME IT ON LOVE AND SAY LOVE IS PAINFUL. BUT REALLY IT’S THE EXPERIENCE THAT CAUSED THE HURT. BUT WHAT DO YOU THINK? DOES THIS MAKE SENSE TO YOU?
Tag: Relationship
STRIP CLUBS WITH YOUR PARTNER?
WOULD YOU GO TO STRIP CLUBS WITH YOUR PARTNER? ARE YOU OK WITH THEM GETTING PRIVATE DANCES? THIS IS SOMETHING I USED TO WONDER ABOUT. I KNOW SOME COUPLES TO GO TO STRIP CLUBS TOGETHER BUT THAT’S JUST SOMETHING I JUST DON’T GET. I’M PRETTY SURE PEOPLE IN OPEN RELATIONSHIPS GO TO PLACES LIKE THAT TOGETHER. NOW IF YOU HAVE A OPEN RELATIONSHIP, THEN THAT’S MORE UNDERSTANDABLE. BUT DO YOU THINK MONOGAMOUS COUPLES GO TO STRIP CLUBS ALSO? WOULD YOU GO WITH YOUR PARTNER? MOST PEOPLE WOULDN’T WANT THEIR PARTNER CHECKING OUT ANOTHER PERSON OF THE OPPOSITE SEX. BUT THEN AGAIN, SOME PEOPLE ARE MORE INSECURE THAN OTHERS. OF COURSE THERE’S NOTHING WRONG WITH DOING FUN THINGS TOGETHER. BUT DO YOU THINK THAT’S A BIT MUCH? IS THIS SOMETHING ONLY PEOPLE WITH OPEN RELATIONSHIPS DO?
NOTHING MATTERS WHEN IT’S LOVE..
THE THING ABOUT LOVE, DISTANCE DON’T MATTER, TIME DON’T MATTER, NOTHING MATTERS. WHEN YOU LOVE SOMEONE, NOTHING MATTERS. NO MATTER WHERE YOU ARE, YOU CAN LOVE AND EXPERIENCE LOVE.
NEGATIVE AND TOXIC PEOPLE..
DON’T STAY AROUND TOXIC AND NEGATIVE PEOPLE. EVENTUALLY THAT ENERGY WILL RUB OFF ON YOU. I USED TO LET PEOPLE LIKE THAT GET TO ME BUT I REALIZED, THEY’RE ACTUALLY THE ONE HURTING. WHETHER ITS A FRIEND, FAMILY MEMBER, OR YOUR SPOUSE. SURROUND YOURSELF WITH POSITIVITY AND ONLY FOCUS ON THE POSITIVE THINGS. YOU CAN LOVE FROM A DISTANCE. EITHER WAY, CHOOSE LOVE.
SEX IN A RELATIONSHIP..
SEX IS A MAJOR PART TO KEEPING A GOOD RELATIONSHIP GOING. ALTHOUGH CHEATING IS NOT RIGHT. SOME PEOPLE DRIVE THEIR PARTNER TO CHEAT DO TO LACK OF SEX. SOME PEOPLE ARE IN RELATIONSHIPS AND IS NOT GETTING SEX, OR ENOUGH OF IT. THAT CAN BE DETRIMENTAL. IF YOUR NOT GIVING YOUR PARTNER SEX OFTEN, DON’T BE SURPRISED WHEN AND IF THEY CHEAT. COMMUNICATION AND SEX IS THE TWO MAIN THINGS THAT IS REQUIRED TO HAVE A GREAT HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP. SO IF YOUR NOT GETTING SEX. INSTEAD OF CHEATING, IT’S BEST TO LEAVE. WHY STAY IF YOUR NOT HAPPY?
MATERIALISTIC RELATIONSHIPS..
TROPHY RELATIONSHIPS ARE SO COMMON, SOME PEOPLE ARE IN A RELATIONSHIPS WITH SOMEONE THAT IS ONLY WITH THEM BECAUSE OF WHO THEY ARE, OR JUST TO HAVE SOMETHING TO CLAIM. YOU DON’T WANT THAT KIND OF RELATIONSHIP. PEOPLE IN THESE KINDS OF RELATIONSHIPS TEND TO GET TREATED BADLY BECAUSE IT’S NOT BASED ON LOVE. YOUR PRETTY MUCH TAKEN FOR GRANTED. THE PERSON DON’T APPRECIATE YOU THEY ARE JUST THERE TO HAVE HAVE SOMETHING TO CLAIM. THEY PRETTY MUCH SEE YOU AS A MATERIAL. A MAN MIGHT GET WITH A WOMAN SIMPLY BECAUSE SHE IS BEAUTIFUL, BUT HE DON’T REALLY FEEL ANYTHING. SHE STAYS THINKING HE ACTUALLY REALLY LOVES HER OR VISE VERSA. THERE’S REALLY NO TRUE FEELINGS ATTACHED. IF YOUR GOING TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEONE, MAKE SURE THEY FEEL THE SAME WAY ABOUT YOU. IF YOU LOVE THEM MAKE SURE THEY LOVE YOU BACK. IF NOT, THERE’S ALWAYS SOMEONE OUT THERE THAT WILL. YOU HAVE TO BE SMART WHEN IT COMES TO LOVE. KNOW WHEN YOU ARE TRULY LOVED AND NOT.
OPEN RELATIONSHIPS..
WOULD YOU ENTER A OPEN RELATIONSHIP? I MEAN REALLY, I’M NOT JUDGING ANYONE, BUT THAT’S SOMETHING I WILL NEVER GET. WHY WOULD YOU WANT TO DO THINGS WITH OTHER PEOPLE IF YOUR IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEONE. DOES THAT MAKE SENSE TO YOU? JUST DON’T REALLY GET THE POINT OF A OPEN RELATIONSHIP. NOT TRYING TO BASH PEOPLE THAT ARE IN THEM BECAUSE IT’S NONE OF MY BUSINESS. 
I FEEL A REAL TRUE LOVE RELATIONSHIP REQUIRES DEDICATION. WOULD YOU REALLY WANT TO BE SITTING AROUND KNOWING YOUR PARTNER IS MESSING WITH OTHER WOMEN OR MEN? IF HE OR SHE REALLY LOVES YOU, WHY WOULD THEY WANT TO BE INVOLVED WITH OTHER PEOPLE?
