NEGATIVE AND TOXIC PEOPLE..

DON’T STAY AROUND TOXIC AND NEGATIVE PEOPLE. EVENTUALLY THAT ENERGY WILL RUB OFF ON YOU. I USED TO LET PEOPLE LIKE THAT GET TO ME BUT I REALIZED, THEY’RE ACTUALLY THE ONE HURTING. WHETHER ITS A FRIEND, FAMILY MEMBER, OR YOUR SPOUSE. SURROUND YOURSELF WITH POSITIVITY AND ONLY FOCUS ON THE POSITIVE THINGS. YOU CAN LOVE FROM A DISTANCE. EITHER WAY, CHOOSE LOVE..po009jjj

SEX IN A RELATIONSHIP..

SEX IS A MAJOR PART TO KEEPING A GOOD RELATIONSHIP GOING. ALTHOUGH CHEATING IS NOT RIGHT. SOME PEOPLE DRIVE THEIR PARTNER TO CHEAT DO TO LACK OF SEX. SOME PEOPLE ARE IN RELATIONSHIPS AND IS NOT GETTING SEX, OR ENOUGH OF IT. THAT CAN BE DETRIMENTAL. IF YOUR NOT GIVING YOUR PARTNER SEX OFTEN, DON’T BE SURPRISED WHEN AND IF THEY CHEAT. COMMUNICATION AND SEX IS THE TWO MAIN THINGS THAT IS REQUIRED TO HAVE A GREAT HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP. SO IF YOUR NOT GETTING SEX. INSTEAD OF CHEATING, IT’S BEST TO LEAVE. WHY STAY IF YOUR NOT HAPPY?

MATERIALISTIC RELATIONSHIPS..

TROPHY RELATIONSHIPS ARE SO COMMON, SOME PEOPLE ARE IN A RELATIONSHIPS WITH SOMEONE THAT IS ONLY WITH THEM BECAUSE OF WHO THEY ARE, OR JUST TO HAVE SOMETHING TO CLAIM. YOU DON’T WANT THAT KIND OF RELATIONSHIP. PEOPLE IN THESE KINDS OF RELATIONSHIPS TEND TO GET TREATED BADLY BECAUSE IT’S NOT BASED ON LOVE. YOUR PRETTY MUCH TAKEN FOR GRANTED. THE PERSON DON’T APPRECIATE YOU THEY ARE JUST THERE TO HAVE HAVE SOMETHING TO CLAIM. THEY PRETTY MUCH SEE YOU AS A MATERIAL. A MAN MIGHT GET WITH A WOMAN SIMPLY BECAUSE SHE IS BEAUTIFUL, BUT HE DON’T REALLY FEEL ANYTHING. SHE STAYS THINKING HE ACTUALLY REALLY LOVES HER OR VISE VERSA. THERE’S REALLY NO TRUE FEELINGS ATTACHED. IF YOUR GOING TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEONE, MAKE SURE THEY FEEL THE SAME WAY ABOUT YOU. IF YOU LOVE THEM MAKE SURE THEY LOVE YOU BACK. IF NOT, THERE’S ALWAYS SOMEONE OUT THERE THAT WILL. YOU HAVE TO BE SMART WHEN IT COMES TO LOVE. KNOW WHEN YOU ARE TRULY LOVED AND NOT.

OPEN RELATIONSHIPS..

WOULD YOU ENTER A OPEN RELATIONSHIP? I MEAN REALLY, I’M NOT JUDGING ANYONE, BUT THAT’S SOMETHING I WILL NEVER GET. WHY WOULD YOU WANT TO DO THINGS WITH OTHER PEOPLE IF YOUR IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEONE. DOES THAT MAKE SENSE TO YOU? JUST DON’T REALLY GET THE POINT OF A OPEN RELATIONSHIP. NOT TRYING TO BASH PEOPLE THAT ARE IN THEMĀ  BECAUSE IT’S NONE OF MY BUSINESS. POBBVI FEEL A REAL TRUE LOVE RELATIONSHIP REQUIRES DEDICATION. WOULD YOU REALLY WANT TO BE SITTING AROUND KNOWING YOUR PARTNER IS MESSING WITH OTHER WOMEN OR MEN? IF HE OR SHE REALLY LOVES YOU, WHY WOULD THEY WANT TO BE INVOLVED WITH OTHER PEOPLE?

HEALING AFTER A BAD RELATIONSHIP..

WHATEVER YOU LAST RELATIONSHIP WAS LIKE, IF YOU STILL ARE DEALING WITH PERSONAL ISSUES FROM YOUR LAST RELATIONSHIP. DON’T MOVE ON UNTIL YOU ARE REALLY READY. YOU DON’T WANT TO BRING PAST ISSUES INTO A NEW SPACE. ACCEPT THAT IT’S THE PAST AND MOVE ON. IF YOU’VE ENCOUNTERED LOTS OF NEGATIVE EXPERIENCES, IT COULD TAKE TIME TO HEAL, SOME PEOPLE CAN GET OVER IT QUICKER THAN OTHERS,BUT THERE’S NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT. UNDERSTAND THAT EVERYONE IS NOT THE SAME AND YOUR NEXT RELATIONSHIP MAY BE THE BEST YOU’VE EVER HAD.sunset-3936096_960_720

SELF ESTEEM AND RELATIONSHIPS..

DOES YOUR PARTNER SAY POSITIVE OR NEGATIVE THINGS TO YOU OFTEN? MAKING YOUR PARTNER FEEL GOOD ABOUT THEMSELVES AND WHO THEY ARE, EVERYTHING ABOUT THEM, IS A MAJOR PART OF BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP. IF YOUR MAN REALLY LOVES YOU AND CHERISHES YOU, HE’S GOING TO BE MAKING YOU FEEL IT. HE’S GOING TO DO AND SAY THINGS TO SHOW YOU HOW MUCH HE APPRECIATES AND LOVES YOU. SAME GOES FOR WOMEN. IF YOUR PARTNER SAYS NEGATIVE THINGS TO YOU A LOT OF TIMES, THINGS THAT CAN TARNISH YOUR SELF CONFIDENCE AND ESTEEM, YOU MIGHT WANT TO RETHINK THAT RELATIONSHIP. SOME PEOPLE HAVE BEEN THROUGH THIS, THEY THINK HE/ SHE LOVES THEM SIMPLY BECAUSE THAT PERSON IS WITH THEM. BUT JUST BECAUSE SOMEONE IS WITH YOU DON’T MEAN THEY REALLY APPRECIATE AND CHERISHES YOU. TRUE LOVE IS EVERYTHING GOOD. GOOD WORDS, GOOD ACTIONS ETC….. MEN CAN EXPERIENCE THIS FROM THEIR FEMALE PARTNER AS WELL. BUT EITHER WAY. I WOULD JUST LEAVE THAT PERSON.